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If your focus on the reason the relationship has gone south is because you weren't enjoying the sex as much then you're highly unlikely to ever find the partner you want. Don't get me wrong, being a participant is important, but being satisfied? No human remains fully satisfied by their partner for 40 years. We humans aren't wired that way.
As for your comments related to him not focusing on you alone, I am equally sorry to inform you that you would detest a man who actually wanted to spend all his time focused on you. You would call such a man “clingy” and berate him for not having any hobbies and resent the fact that you cannot get a moment to yourself.
So to sum it up, you don't really have any idea what you want. You think you want it, and your emotions compel you to want to feel certain ways, but you don't. In the long run what will bring you the most comfort is someone who you can depend on for the bigger things in life. You'll want someone who will listen when someone is in the hospital. You'll want someone who is a no doubt call when you're in an emergency. You'll want someone who you can talk to at night about fear and anxiety and not echo that energy back but make you feel like he's got a handle on it. If you don't start recognizing what actually matters in your life then you will keep repeating the same mistakes looking for someone to stand up to a standard that is humanly impossible to succeed at.
As others have said, this sounds like SAD. This time of year is exceptionally difficult for me as well, and I always have a nude time managing things. Is therapy an option? I know that for me personally, it's helped.
I’m 43 and I’m currently being assessed for multiple psychological issues as I’ve suffered with pretty severe depression and anxiety my whole life. Autism has come up as a very likely diagnosis for me, which it was kind of shocking but it does make sense. I asked my mom if I had any issues or odd behaviour as a child so I can get a full and complete assessment. Long story short, my mom got defensive and upset, told me I’m not autistic, I need a second opinion and removed me from Facebook. Unfortunately moms can suck and it’s very painful, but it’s not your fault. Moms are typically supposed to be the empathetic and loving caregiver, but they aren’t all like that.
As a mom, I would like to offer you a hug and some advice. Find a therapist and figure out what healing path you need to take. Find things you love to do and do them. Don’t let anyone toxic take away your happiness. You can do this ❤️
Grown men put the toilet seat up to pee. The end.
The only exception I can think of is if he does this in his sleep. Is he known to sleepwalk?
Yeah I think I might try self defence and going to the gym
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Do it. The housing issue is more serious than a potential relationship issue. You either roll the dice and get a place to online with a potential party and a situation that might lead to a housing issue. Or you deal with the actual housing issue now. Either way it's a tough situation. Go the route with a nude room mate lol.
The amount of details left out, only to specifically mention meatball subs 3 times, leads me to believe that I need to try these legendary meatball subs… and that this post isn't real
It seems you waited too long. For future use this is why you communicate with your partners. Has she known she could’ve tried to be there for you and understood maybe but you cut her out. Unless she wants to work it out you have no choice but to let her go. Just make sure you get an attorney in good custody arrangement
for some reason, cheating with a girl friend is much better than cheating with a guy friend
girl friend went down on her vs she giving a bj to a guy friend
just saying
Honestly, move on.
Up to you, I avoid emotional turmoil like the plague myself. Maybe something happened that caused her to act this way that she hasn’t mentioned.
To me though it sounds like nothing happened and she’s just a case of emotional roller coaster. You don’t want to be on that ride, in my opinion.
Your mother being a hoarder (and the rest of your family assumedly defending that) is probably the sticking point here. I’m not going to say anything about that aspect because I don’t know your family but I would say your GFs feelings are as valid as yours. If it were me I absolutely wouldn’t want to spend any time in a hoarder’s house either.
I think you should sit down with your GF and have a serious conversation about this, so yeah I think essentially ultimatums are kinda the way to go here but you should be looking at this as a matter of compatibility rather than a you vs your GF thing.
I want to stress that your GF is not in the wrong, and neither are you, mental illness in family members is tough.
See if you can compromise somehow (you go see your family but she doesn’t have to, you bring your family to a different place and meet there, etc.). If not this might just be one of those things that makes the relationship untenable and it might be better to end things amicably before it becomes more heated than it sounds like it already is.
Yeah she’s crazy, good on you bro for cutting off that dead weight
You leave her alone. You’re a horrible partner and just- Wtaf? Why would you think it’s okay to talk about how nude her friend is and “how she would be in bed” while in a relationship? You lost her and that’s on you. What should you do? Leave her the hell alone. Don’t harass her, don’t message her, call her, show up at her house/place where she works. Leave her tf alone.
Is the common pattern that he fails to do what he should, you get upset about that, and then he says you're at fault for “nagging” instead of him being at fault for not doing what he should?
What are your big arguments about?
She was too young when you got together, and based on your post history, it looks like she got pregnant quickly. She didn't get to grow up before she was thrown into this adult life. It's not surprising that she's immature. That's what happens when you jump into marriage and family with a literal teenager.
Woah woah no no they're not dating, he's her cousin, neither of us cheated
Tell him that his smoking is making you lose sexual attraction in him.
Yes it does sound like it unfortunately. I'm sorry
he mentions multiple times that it is about allocating more funds for his presents though…
OP your thinking is immature at best.
Consider this: This girl wants a bad boy who will ignore her and treat her with disrespect. She willfully got pregnant with him, and delivered his baby due to the genuine desire she had for him. And all this while you were available but she did not pay any attention to you.
Now she's a single mother, and needs help for someone to raise the other man's baby. Now she remembers you. Suddenly she wants to be forgiven. Suddenly you have become desirable.
If you choose to associate with this woman, it is not going to go well, I guarantee it.
His connection with you and intimacy with you is likely very different from intimacy with a majority of his other partners.
On top of that you've had a meaningful connection for 4 years, and you've been together for 3 years, so that too indicates to me that his bond with you emotionally and sexually is very special to him.
So that's something to take solace in, you in fact may be the only person he has such a deep connection with. So yeah, he has slept with a lot of people and that may take you some time to be okay with, but I think if your connection is very special, with time, you will.
Weed is not the same as coke. He is sober until he thinks he can do it again without getting addicted and you’re back in the same spot. You can’t compare doing a different drug twice to it being an “easy” addiction to kick. There’s a reason why people who are clean relapse. Stress of a new baby and trying to find a job with a record could easily be one
That's not a dumb question. That doesn't mean that you don't know if he's happy or sad. It just means that you care and are there to listen if and when he wants to talk. I mean he's obviously not doing well, but there are different aspects of sadness and grief. Sometimes we need to talk things out. It's obvious that you know he's not doing well, but he's got so many feelings eating him up and may need to let them out. Or sometimes he might not want to say much because he won't be able to put his feelings into words. I think that, “How are you doing?” is a way of saying that you're there when he's ready.
Yup, I might sounds like a total hippie here but when I’m on acid I feel like I’m just more of myself, and more aware. As someone who wouldn’t cheat sober, I wouldn’t cheat while on any substances either.
What is there to reconcile?
This doesn't sound like something where you patch things up and online happily ever after.
This sounds like he hates the sight of you and wishes his life was different.
So, you should be saying 'fuck that noise'.. I deserve better and want a relationship that appreciates everything about me.
Lol what
Sounds like a massive prank. Or a creative writing thing. Not superb.
Yea that's kinda weird. But sense you have a shared calendar it makes me think he doesn't have anything to hide. Maybe he put it in there because he is friends with the husband and wants to attend to hand out with him? But all in all, I think that chick is involving your husband way too much into her own marital bullshit. Like get a therapist lady, not someone elses husband
Totally different. Thoughts are not actions. A better analogy would be how all girls get together and talk about intimate details regarding their interactions with men, despite the fact that it would be much better if they kept that shit private.
Glad to have helped
You’re right. I haven’t been on my own in so long. I don’t know who I am anymore. I know it sounds silly but when you date someone for so long at such a young age, you lose yourself.
If you aren't happy then leave. Simple as that.
In your worldview I am not an adult. Very helpful.