You need fo be honest. My mom used to call me all the time and demanded too much attention. I set boundaries and then controlled how much I talked to her.
If she breaks your boundaries say no. She absolutely cannot join you on your honeymoon. Don't answer your phone when you don't want to. And move if you have to.
When she realizes you aren't there for every beck and call she'll need to start expanding her own circle. Encourage her to join a church, clubs, volunteer, date, hobbies, etc. And she likely needs counselling.
And do not feel guilty. See her sometimes but you can't be filling all the holes in her life. She needs to take control of her own life.
Was likely faked tho. Finding daughter, just happens to be in foster, so adopting. Hospital gives them settlement payout in less than a month regarding a years old incident. All while verifying dna and searching fosters. They already bought house hours away with money same month to start fresh. Husband manages to chime in on socials for his side
Again, it’s my opinion and normally I am the first to say leave and find some one better just like you replied (look at my comment history) but as OP said she’s “finally” wanting to go to therapy to fix her internal issues so this may be salvageable + no cheating was involved so there’s that.
You need fo be honest. My mom used to call me all the time and demanded too much attention. I set boundaries and then controlled how much I talked to her.
If she breaks your boundaries say no. She absolutely cannot join you on your honeymoon. Don't answer your phone when you don't want to. And move if you have to.
When she realizes you aren't there for every beck and call she'll need to start expanding her own circle. Encourage her to join a church, clubs, volunteer, date, hobbies, etc. And she likely needs counselling.
And do not feel guilty. See her sometimes but you can't be filling all the holes in her life. She needs to take control of her own life.
Was likely faked tho. Finding daughter, just happens to be in foster, so adopting. Hospital gives them settlement payout in less than a month regarding a years old incident. All while verifying dna and searching fosters. They already bought house hours away with money same month to start fresh. Husband manages to chime in on socials for his side
Again, it’s my opinion and normally I am the first to say leave and find some one better just like you replied (look at my comment history) but as OP said she’s “finally” wanting to go to therapy to fix her internal issues so this may be salvageable + no cheating was involved so there’s that.