Honestly, I can understand and empathize with what your gf has been through. However, you protected her. If she can't see that simple fact, and would rather you let them do something worse like rape her, maybe she's not the one for you. You don't want a woman that's going to expect you to let men break into your house and do whatever they please with absolutely no repercussion.
And this is coming from a woman. If my husband didn't do his best to protect me, I'd see that as a failure.
Your boyfriends a pedo ffs. Age play? I threw up in my mouth. He probably imagines how old u were 10 years ago.
Honestly, I can understand and empathize with what your gf has been through. However, you protected her. If she can't see that simple fact, and would rather you let them do something worse like rape her, maybe she's not the one for you. You don't want a woman that's going to expect you to let men break into your house and do whatever they please with absolutely no repercussion.
And this is coming from a woman. If my husband didn't do his best to protect me, I'd see that as a failure.
Hopefully she will happily pay you back without questions. Sometimes common sense goes out the window when drinks and old friends are involved.
If she makes a big deal about it, that’s a red flag.