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Y'all gotta stop treating grown ass women like children
Thank you for this helpful comment. I’d be happy to show a kind man who has been hurt love and patience ?
Fwiw, she’ll still be healing for awhile. 3 months is a lot of time, but it can take even longer for stuff to fully heal. Not saying it will look vastly different. Just that it might settle more.
People will do the most crazy mental gymnastics to do what they want and feel okay about it.
Nope, I'd tell them. The embarrassment they feel over seeing your hard art is nothing to the fact that your BIL is currently sharing your nudes without your consent. Shut that down right now before he shares them any further. Big ick
This is some long-range, ultrasonic gaslighting, my friend. Tell him to pack his shit and never come back. If this was even remotely above-board, they would have invited you.
You are 17, you can find a new gf who isn't so cold. I know someone who was in an accident similar to yours and it took a few months for her to get past the trauma.
Jokes calm down bud
I would be outta there
You are an amazing person, and I hope you the best in life! We will beat it!!! I hope OP does as well.
Yes you are right. Thank you for replying. I’ve come to the conclusion that I am going to distance myself from him again, for a longer period hopefully. I don’t need a friendship like that.
Bro where are you parents? Seriously you seem young as hell. And. And I honestly hope you are for your sake.
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It's over. He will do it again. What he did was disrespect everything about you. You live! together and he did that. He would not have likely said anything if caught.
Now you hold all the power. He will try anything to keep you on his side because years of grad school will go to waste if he is expelled. Depending on his field it could ruin his career before it starts. What he did is a black flag in academia.
My suggestion is use it as leverage and find out more from him. Tell him you know there is more from the past even if you don't. You are breaking up with him and you will only report him if he doesn't confess everything right then and there. If you learn more it only confirms you need to leave ASAP.
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You do realize that you're unlikely to ever find someone if you can't handle the fact that they've had sex before meeting you. You should probably ly talk to a therapist so you can work through this insecurity, because you're in for a lifetime of bitter disappointment.
Probably some bored teenager on winter break.
“But if after the two months we end up splitting he would feel bad if he didn’t know so he couldn’t take action”
That doesn’t matter. He doesn’t need to know that your relationship is on the chopping block to be able to be a good boyfriend. If he can’t do that on his own then he doesn’t deserve you.
Listen to your therapist. And don’t tell him. That defeats the purpose.
Sounds like a narcissists individual who loves to throw that back in your face at every opportunity she gets. So, she was absolutely perfect, did nothing wrong, at all in 8 years of raising a child?
She needs counseling to deal with the issue and if she won't go, then you can't win, maybe you get counseling on how to respond when she throws it in your face.
Honestly, my grandmother never forget anything I ever did and when we have arguments she would list every thing I did she thought was bad regardless of me defending my self. Needless to say I could not take verbal abuse anymore and cut off all contact with her.
Get some counseling, re-evaluate your marriage and go from there. I'M TELLING YOU NOW, SHE WILL NEVER EVER LET THIS GO! Goodluck!
Ignore his tantrum. Hopefully he'll realize soon that he's soooo wrong. 1st) swimming > running that's facts 2) running is terrible on your joints 3) he doesn't want… men to see you alone at the gym? Why's that? What does he do when he see a women alone at the gym to be scared to leave you there without a chaperone?
From the very limited info, he sounds either insecure or controlling. That's not a good look.
I texted him casually asking how he go to work and he threw out some movie recommendations for when I get out of rehearsal tomorrow. I think I’ll try my best to stay calm and see what happens. We’re friends first so whatever happens I’m sure we’ll be okay.
Thank you for the encouragement
How would exclusive fwb work? I thought the defining factor for a fwb is that you don’t need to be exclusive.
Honestly I’ve been having the existential dread of not being far off 30 and this just reminded me how good it is now hahaha
He actually wanted to explain himself smh so gross. The fact that he told her he didnt have “ill intentions”, yea that doesnt mean anything. You felt entitled to touch her body because thats how predators think.
To be honest, I'm also bisexual, and shit like this gives us a bad name. I have had men turn me down once they know I'm bisexual because they have dated bisexual woman that aren't satisfied with being with a man only.
Perhaps you need to break up, do you can explore your sexuality. You're not mature enough for a relationship, definitely not mature enough to be with this one man for your whole life.
And you are only 25, what do you mean you're getting older and uglier? Are you wearing sunscreen?
I get where you would be concerned, considering you mentioned that it was one of your boyfriends wishes in the decree and you are trying to protect your feelings and his. That and you mentioned every valid point that people would try and challenge immediately (i.e. kids). So it shown me that you have weighed out everything, but also have enough logic to think “am I being unreasonable, or right for having concerns”. And you are looking for feedback, which few people on this thread have provided other than “mind ya business”. I believe in weighing out both sides as to why you should care vs why you shouldn't. But unfortunately you don't really have much of a say in it at this point in the game. Let her live! in the past?
But from a legal standpoint, I have no advice other than to do research or have your boyfriend consult with an attorney if HE feels it's an issue still. It's mentioned in a legal document, so I am really not sure if she would have to abide by that or if they are working to amend the document.
So you’ve gone through his laptop before this situation and he got angry about it? Again, just trying to get the facts.
A) Don't stay in a relationship with a cheater.
B) Don't stay in a relationship with a person who makes a SLIDESHOW of DICK PICS thinking you're gonna get turned on by that. But, inquiring minds do need to know what song it was set to.
Sorry to make light of this one, OP, but… dang. This dude has some kind of cognitive dissonance that he'd think a slideshow of dick pics he most likely sent to other women would be a great gift for his WIFE who knows full well he has a history of questionable ethics. Like… WHAT?!
He's saying that stuff on purpose to make you feel bad so you'll try to do even more for him.
Like who tf wakes their partner up gor a bi (unless this has been consented on, which I highly doubt with your partner).
You're 24, you deserve pleasure and orgasms and someone who respects you and WANTS to be with you. Not some miserable guy 10 years your senior that treats you like a servant. “Recently he has been learning to be kinder(…)” girl, he is 34!! He will not change. Trust me.
You deserve someone who gives you the same level of care and attention that you give them.
Ugh… I just hope the second person who saw your case had more idea of what they were doing.
Once I had blood in my urine and went to the doctor. The first one (male) was nice but then a female doctor asked me if it was not my period. I had to tell her “my pee was purple” with the worst face I could and make her go away inmediatly. I swear… some are just…
Can you keep Altoids by the bed? Are you insulting him or being rude when you say no? Is he pressuring you? More context please.
Surface level assessment says his ego is hurt.
If you don’t want to on-line like this for the rest of your life, you should leave. What would cause her to improve? Rather, she’s more likely to get worse as time goes by. Everybody starts out nice. Everybody starts out taking care of each other, but over time is when the real person comes out and I think you’re seeing the real person now. Follow your gut.
Thanks for the note, its good advice. I try to tell her at least once a week how much I appreciate her, and how great of a mom she is. But I think your message was a good reminder that sometimes people just need to vent and a partner is supposed to be there to listen and support. Your analogy of the office and the validation is super insightful.
I also think I probably need to be more vocal about the validation and appreciation that I need. She is not one to give out thank yous and appreciation frequently and I am definitely someone who craves validation, so I probably just need to express that. But asking for appreciation sometimes defeats the positive impact it has so I stopped reminding her.
Why would he do that? Do you share with your partner every single detail, pranks , jokes you do with your friends?
You have put her through the ringer in at least 15 ways that I could count just from this post, are emotionally abusive, and you somehow want to win her back? Dude she should have stayed away from you after the first time. I’m shocked it took this long. Let. Her. Go.
Well…she needs to get a life of her own. A relationship should be icing on the cake, not the cake itself. Seems to me that she depends on you to be all the things for her and she needs to get out there and do something herself.
Dude's porn is better organized than my dissertation research. Goddamn if that isn't horrifying on both sides.
Okay but so was yours. Again you use derogatory slang to make a point as if that’s not unnecessary. She provided more info and if you literally don’t believe in I guess giving people even a day off from work then you must work 7 days a week. If you are comparing this to a job then she shouldn’t have to keep things spotless all day. Homemaking is hard. Take your hypocrisy and go.
How does he rate his own personality?
This guy is talking to his cat while on the phone with his girlfriend, praises the cat more than her before belittling her because she's not confident enough?
He doesn't look like a price
You need to get your ducks in a row before confronting him. Get all of your assets in order, find another place to live! if you need to or get prepared with paperwork to kick his ass out. Cheating is cheating, it doesn’t matter if someone has a different sexuality and wants to explore it. He’s in a relationship WITH YOU! After you get everything together I would confront him. If he’s still asleep make sure you take pictures of his texts with your own phone and keep them as evidence in case he denies it or tries to gaslight you. Good luck and I’m sorry this is happening.
I would stop being her “friend”. friends don't lie on each other. don't use each other as excuses, and sure as hell don't try to “baby trap” each other.
I would watch out, if she didn't come out one day, pregnant, and say it is yours. you 2 are so close and have been for years, she would totally get away with it until the dna test too.
she's planning a kid with you, that you have NO say in or even get to be part of the making of.
That's messed up on a whole different codependent level!
This is more about her threatening to leave the relationship over an argument. And we did define our relationship and the boundaries.
Um what do you mean by “accelerate with my car”?
Exactly! See you are one of the people that get the true gravitas of what it is to adopt a pet!
No hun seriously.. your post resonates so much with me.
I had shell shock after meeting my husband because i never knew how much i excused shit like this..
I honestly just want you to be safe and this whole situation seems anything but. There is zero excuses for this.
If you can't talk to your besties about this.. you should know there is something wrong. When you start feeling like you need to hide shit like that because you know inside your friends would tell you it's not okay.. that should say everything you need to know.
Please be safe. Please get the morning after pill if you aren't on birth control and jesus please just go stay with a friend for a bit. U need space to actually think about all of this. To reaaaally think about how you are feeling and physically if you are still in pain please go see a dr love. ?
No hun seriously.. your post resonates so much with me.
I had shell shock after meeting my husband because i never knew how much i excused shit like this..
I honestly just want you to be safe and this whole situation seems anything but. There is zero excuses for this.
If you can't talk to your besties about this.. you should know there is something wrong. When you start feeling like you need to hide shit like that because you know inside your friends would tell you it's not okay.. that should say everything you need to know.
Please be safe. Please get the morning after pill if you aren't on birth control and jesus please just go stay with a friend for a bit. U need space to actually think about all of this. To reaaaally think about how you are feeling and physically if you are still in pain please go see a dr love. ?
Oh honey… please don't go back…. just block him and let him go!
The replies are just odd.
Don't forget getting the place all dirty because she's covered in mud. Your boyfriend's, an idiot.
This sounds like a relationship that is headed towards the ending. Where you both move on for the better.
For the record. Yes, you probably should've told him beforehand. However, his reaction is a complete and utter overreaction and shows us outsiders many things.
Either it's a manipulation tactic to get his way, as in convince you to do his laundry again because otherwise you need to deal with his temper tantrum. Or yea, dude is just fed up with this relationship, but absolutely refuses to leave you.
There's a great lack of context so I'm not trying to assume too much. Do you work full time as well? You guys just may be incompatible in terms of chores and never really communicated. I'm getting the feeling that might be something consistent.
Again. I'm sorry to say but as an outsider it just sounds like this is where you only just realize this relationship is probably going nowhere. It may be why you feel the way you do. Because it's been 8 years and youre scared but this does not sound healthy and it does not sound like there's much to fix.
Sounds like she is blaming her decision on you so she doesn't have to accept responsibility for it.
I think if this stresses you out having a long distance relationship, focusing on your education would be ideal even if it sucks. Eventually you may make friends because you are opening up the oppertunity, not having your mind on maintaining a relationship will free you up socially. It may take time but it will work out. The universe has a way of bringing you new oppertunities in the time of need when you least expect it. If you keep that door closed and fall into her trap guilting you when she CLEARLY made that decision, you will continue to churn on how to make it work which will effect your overall performance. Brainfog sucks.
I hope that make sense. This is advise from the heart, non bias opinion trying to get you to see both sides of the coin.
If you really love her and were planning to marry her, I would like you to think about the fact that she disregarded all your efforts in trying to be together says alot about what can happen in your future relationship. If you let it slide will your feelings be considered in the future? Right now you are setting the bar of what you will except on how to be treated.
I know what college you go to is a big decision and a important one so only you know her and her past actions weather she has considered your feelings in the past or blown them off for her own reasons that favor her. Only you know how important this college has been to her all along or if it was a spur of the moment decision.
I hope this helped. I am not encouraging you either way. Just try to look at all the factors and make this decision with all your mind and some of you heart. One incident isnt a make or break deal but this is a pretty big one.
I think I'm rambling now. Good Luck.
Have you been to a bachelors place before? How was it?
I don't think it is a great idea. To get over a relationship you need space from the other person. Coparenting a pet isn't really a great idea for healing.
Im jumping on this comment because it's super important! Her life forward is of no concern to you. You need to stop checking her, because the mind works in devious ways. The better she does the worse you will. Because she betrayed you so naturally the mind thinks that this is pretty unfair.
And us humans have a tendency to take note of bad things rather than good. Meaning we become biased. Even if you have a super fun week, one bad day can ruin your whole mindset because we focus on the bad day instead of the awesome week.
Also dont let her cheating affect how you view people. It can lead to very dark places. Insecurity, jealousy and trust issues. These are not healthy issues to bring with when going in to a new relationship.
Stop looking back and start moving forward.
She sounds like she’s competing against you.
But you don’t have to be tactful if she’s being disrespectful, call her out on all those accusations.
I divorced at 30, 2 kids…. It was rough. I didn’t want to date. 5 years later I met a wonderful man who knew I had children. Waited a little under a year to introduce them. He embraced them. We eventually moved in together and he’s a wonderful step dad. Are all men interested in dating single moms, no. But they aren’t the right one. I took time to heal myself. Learn how to do the things my ex was in charge of. Learned how to use power tools and basic plumbing. At first it was scary but I felt really empowered. I loved the time I was a single mom. I grew so much! Try and take everything one day at a time! Everything will work out! You and you’re kids will be okay!!
Lol. This is like one of us oldies feeling bad that we went to a club we knew the girl we liked would be at. ?