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Date: December 10, 2022
INFO: Why does your husband not want your sister in your home? Is it because she’s an addict? Did she use while in your home? Did she behave inappropriately ie stealing things or do something to your husband?
Yeah as a guy I don’t don’t stare but glancing once is normal and sometimes we just unconsciously do it. But noticing pretty women and their features is biologically hardwired into us. But given that it is our responsibility to not be a creep about it.
You can feel angry but you can’t take it out on others. Likewise, she has a problem and is just using it as an excuse to cover her actions and isn’t actually doing anything to help herself but instead be stale and stuck in this position with no growth and healing
My parents did this for a few years. We were little humans they created together and as such they had something massive in common and actually kind of got on as friends. It was magical for us, and I’m glad there wasn’t someone breathing down his neck to spoil our Christmas morning.
There is a fine line between sharing your feelings and attempting to manipulate someone. I don’t think you’re crossing that line currently and I don’t think you’re doing it intentionally, but its still a fine line.
At the end of the day you’ve expressed that you don’t like something repeatedly. She’s repeatedly proven that she isn’t going to change her behavior (and she’s not under any obligation to, she hasn’t done anything wrong).
This one is on you. If you continue to stay in this relationship you know that this is going to continue to come up and every time you’re going to express the same feelings. You’re walking into a brick wall over and over again wondering why it won’t move.
You’re in a very new relationship where you both clearly have different views on exes or old partners. You’re young, likely in college, and have so many options available to you. Why not find someone who shares similar views?
Naah I swear I've read this before. Except it was your biological aunt who had the step son. Completely the same all down to the 4 year gap before everyone finding out and the aunt doing a 180 and disapproving after everyone found out. I'm calling this shady.
You are engaging in very black-and-white thinking. There's a vast middle ground between being supportive and caring and being someone's therapist.
My boyfriend and I both have therapists as well as a full support system outside of one another. We still go to each other for support as well because we love each other and want to be there for each other. I feel honored when he lets me in to what he's feeling and it makes me feel very safe that I can also be vulnerable with him. He's super insightful and perceptive so he gives great advice and comfort when I need it, and I work to provide the same for him.
We are not each other's therapists by any stretch of the imagination. But we are vulnerable with each other and that's a really lovely part of a relationship. Without that, you can never really move past the surface level.
Are you sure he isn’t in high school? Check yes if you want to go out with me.
This is really great advice, thank you so much.
I've been in a similar situation where my bf at the time had strong opinions against substances while I don't. In my case, it was a huge case of misaligned morals – he wasn't trying to be controlling, he genuinely had a very strong moral objection to any substances.
It ended up that we fundamentally disagreed on too many things and the relationship just fizzled out after a few years. I would have a really long think about whether you see yourself with your bf for the rest of your life if nothing changes. If he was exactly the same as he is now for the rest of his life, is he the kind of person you want to be with for another 60 years?
For me and ex bf, the answer was no. We broke up, moved on, and are both delightfully married to other people now that gel with us much better.
You don't. I mean, not if you have a decent bone in your body. People have pasts, and everyone you are ever with at your age will have one. Just get over yourself. Obviously the person was horrible that would send you that. If it bothers you that much, get therapy.
Also, who the fuck opens an attachment from an unknow source?
I just called my OBYN and asked about “almost one month pregnancies” she said this is fake just like my call.
If you're not comfortable doing something, don't do it. I've seen so many instances where the boyfriend kept nagging the girlfriend into this scenario, she eventually gave in and felt filthy and horrible for a long time afterward. It doesn't matter how much you love him, boundaries are there for a reason. If he keeps saying “I love you, we should do it”, it sounds like he's trying to manipulate you into doing what you don't want
Yeah, seems suspicious. If my wife suspected me of doing something (with good reason) that could literally end our marriage, and I had a way to prove my innocence, you can be damn sure I'd be doing everything in my power to get that test to clear my name.
Also – not accepting new patients? That's the whole point of an urgent care center. “Normal” doctors sometimes don't accept new patients, or you can't get appointments for a long time. Urgent care centers are for any random person to go in, a middle ground before going to the ER to pay double the rates and slowing down emergency care at ER's for non-emergency things.
How often does she exhibit this kind of behaviour? Has she often shown favouritism between you and your sister, or tried to restrict your freedom or choices generally?
Although you are honorable in trying it’s no shame on your part to grant her wishes and annul the union. Quick and painless onto NC is the best for you. There is no understanding why things happen the way they do but it’s not the end of things and hopefully happiness awaits you.
leave her the hell alone
Honestly you're going to just have to accept that in a long-term relationship nobody is sexy 100% of the time and it's really not a big deal. He was being shallow and shouldn't have said that, but there are going to be way less sexy times in your future. If you stay together long enough, he's going to see you throw up, maybe give birth, possibly be ill for a long time, gain weight, lose weight, get old, etc. That's all part of a real relationship.
Be a better boy and tell her some random Redditor said she could run away with me. We'll have a great time!
Last month you had had a boyfriend who was 28 and were dating him since June… fake story :/
Please get therapy for your issues. This is about you learning to think better of yourself and taking steps to be that better person.
Tf
Kinda sounds like stuff I said when I was called out for my alcoholism. “I can stop at any time, I'll prove it! I don't need it..” continues to secretly drink with new ways to hide it “See guys, I'm sober!”
I hope you're right in trusting him, but these are classic addict signs.
Thank you for replying. I don’t want to break up with him over this because we have an amazing relationship outside of the sexual aspect. I do get to be in the mood sometimes, but because I’ve never done it before it doesn’t feel necessarily like a need for my life just yet. I want to figure out what he’s afraid of and work on it together. I may be inexperienced as a partner, but I know what kind of partner I want to be and I’m not going to give up because of this without attempting to work through it with him.
This right here is perfect
I’m not an American. I’m from Asia. I have an accent and mandarin is naked.
Why do you want kids? What does that look like to you? How do you see your participation?
The reason that I ask is that it seems like some men are all “I want kids!” But they have a really romanticized idea of what that looks like. They just see themselves coaching a ball team, going to Disney or something.
They often are not thinking about things like….the impact to our bodies through pregnancy and child birth—some of which are irreversible, sometimes painful, even deadly. They aren’t thinking about being up through the night and changing diapers. They aren’t thinking about the lost lifetime earnings and career impacts because they work miss any work or have to turn down opportunities. They don’t think about the mental load is of being a primary parent and running a household. They don’t plan to give up their hobbies or friends to be home with the kids—hey, their wife will handle things.
So for real, if you have an unrealistic view of what raising kids looks like, maybe look into that a bit more.
Whatever you do, don’t try to coerce her into having children. If you want them and she doesn’t, go find someone whose needs and wants align with yours. As a man, you can father children til damn near the day you die barring other issues. Women cannot. So don’t waste your time here if you want to meet someone new about your age and have kids.
I know far too many people who got talked into having kids. And while they love their kids and are good parents, the resentment of agreeing to do it then basically being left as a single parent caused divorce.
People shouldn’t have kids they don’t want.
I've never seen anyone cheat on a trip away (well maybe when I was a 19 year old student on a particularly crazy trip).
These people are not your friends. They are friends with the guy who has spent years physically assaulting you and your brother.
Girl, as someone who's married and divorced, I feel you. I have those “I don't wanna waste my life” issues since I wasted 7 of them with that douchebag.
I meant the lady who posted him had low self esteem (if what he said was true about her being a bit of a catfish, that that person has potential issues) but… you have kids and a life and you gotta protect your peace – but I've had people talk shit about me live! that was def not true just cuz I wouldn't sleep with them – so I'm arguably a bit sensitive to people talking shit live! without verifying.
He's been before. Was a disaster, he won't entertain it