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Date: December 11, 2022
you save yourself by breaking up with her.
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It sounds like you‘re very different people and probably not the right match for the long haul. Some people are really extroverted and flirtatious, tactile, love attention. Just by you saying you’re the “opposite” is a hint that she might not be the one? It’s kind of impossible to change someone’s entire personality and way of being in the world. Might it be better to find someone who is on the same wavelength? If I was dating someone and started to see how really different we were and they were really starting to tick me off or hurt my feelings… I would break up and move on. There are so many people to choose from when you’re young ?
Oh op, I’m so sorry he is being like this. Of course you’re not going to be for any action, you’ve been through a big loss and are dealing with recovery from the surgery. What on earth crossed his mind that he thought it was appropriate? Even if he thought it was a funny joke (you know what men can be like at times), but to then double down and follow up with the why not? I’m speechless! I don’t think you’re being overly emotional on this at all, it was a very messed up/crass thing he said & brought up.
He could be dealing with the loss by thinking of everything BUT what has happened. But this is the time when you need each other & to be talking. He could be on silent treatment because he knows he messed up & doesn’t know what to say now and knows he embarrassed himself. Men can sometimes go self sabotaging when they don’t know what to do. You know him better than we do.
Have you got anyone you can phone for support if they can’t come over in person? Friend or family? I would possibly try text him to open the gates of communication, as much as he is complete in the wrong here,just keep it gentle to get him talking, something along the lines of I know we’re are both really hurting now, but can we talk? See how he goes from there?
If he thinks he has done nothing wrong, could a third party possibly help? Has he got a close friend (a level headed one), if someone else highlights what he did was messed up, especially another bloke, he might realise what he has done.
I’m just sorry you’re having to deal with this on top of everything, I’m sending gentle internet hugs, big mug of naked chocolate, funny movies to watch whilst tucked up and lots of extra comfy pillows. Xx