Sit her down and tell her that you do not appreciate her constant pressure to propose. Tell her exactly what you just said on here! At the same time also tell her all the good things you think about her. Then wait 6-8 months before you do propose. If she cannot handle this then fine she’ll just have to go! Caving in is only going to be a lifetime of her badgering you about this and that.
Yes, I definitely don’t think we’re ready for marriage. Like I’ve said, I’m not arguing their points. I AGREE. I think people greatly underestimate how hurtful tone can be. Im not asking anyone to sugar coat anything, just to be a decent human. I’ve received lots of helpful DMs with links and advice for counselling. Those people are sincerely helping, not participating in some blown-up Reddit drama
You’re right
Sit her down and tell her that you do not appreciate her constant pressure to propose. Tell her exactly what you just said on here! At the same time also tell her all the good things you think about her. Then wait 6-8 months before you do propose. If she cannot handle this then fine she’ll just have to go! Caving in is only going to be a lifetime of her badgering you about this and that.
Yes, I definitely don’t think we’re ready for marriage. Like I’ve said, I’m not arguing their points. I AGREE. I think people greatly underestimate how hurtful tone can be. Im not asking anyone to sugar coat anything, just to be a decent human. I’ve received lots of helpful DMs with links and advice for counselling. Those people are sincerely helping, not participating in some blown-up Reddit drama
Wow that’s disgusting. So he’s a creep. So he likes to trap younger women propose and try trap them in marriage. You’re history repeating itself.
Also someone made a comment about when you have teenage daughters and their friends which is think is absolutely on the money.
I would run from this relationship.