I mean i would be fine if she had a really legitimate reason like if she had a job or a tough school schedule, I have no problem waiting if she really wants to be with me.
but she doesn’t have much on her plate at the moment and I feel like not talking is a result of a lack of desire rather than a lack of time and I don’t want her to be in a relationship with someone she doesn’t really love
You will be doing the right thing by distancing yourself form her. You don't need to abruptly ignore her or even tell her what you are doing, just a slow disconnection until she is not around you much. Don't cause drama. This your cross to bear.
I definitely need to talk about my boundaries with him I’m going to do that tonight. I’m his first real girlfriend and it might just be that he doesn’t know that what he’s doing is wrong? And if I am not respected then that will give me everything I need to know to break up.
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Don’t let him bully or shame you into stopping. Don’t let him make you feel isolated from your friends.
I mean i would be fine if she had a really legitimate reason like if she had a job or a tough school schedule, I have no problem waiting if she really wants to be with me.
but she doesn’t have much on her plate at the moment and I feel like not talking is a result of a lack of desire rather than a lack of time and I don’t want her to be in a relationship with someone she doesn’t really love
You will be doing the right thing by distancing yourself form her. You don't need to abruptly ignore her or even tell her what you are doing, just a slow disconnection until she is not around you much. Don't cause drama. This your cross to bear.
I definitely need to talk about my boundaries with him I’m going to do that tonight. I’m his first real girlfriend and it might just be that he doesn’t know that what he’s doing is wrong? And if I am not respected then that will give me everything I need to know to break up.