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Date: October 3, 2022
There is a thing called the 80%-20% rule. It basically means that no one can be 100% what you want because no human being is perfect. We have flaws, we make mistakes, life happens. When a spouse or partner cheats most of the time it’s because they are getting about 80% of what they want in a relationship and it’s great and fantastic then they see that 20% they are missing in someone else. To them they think the grass is greener on the other side because there is what they are missing so they cheat or leave to get it. They are happy for a little while until they realize they fucked up and are now getting only 20% of what they want and they usually always try and go back to that 80%. If someone walks away from you for a momentary happiness to fill a small void that you cannot fulfill then find someone who is happy with that 80%. I promise you that someone would be.
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Maybe you should go to the doctor
Not your place to say anything, if she’s really your friend you’ll keep your distance from this guy
Sounds like Danny is a bit of a prat. A few of my friends are musicians, different genres that I do not like. They know it is not my taste. I go support them whenever I can and they always give me a big hug because they appreciate that I am there 100% for them.
Haaaaa exactly! I think we both use reddit for our niche hobbies and I hear enough about VR and video games irl. He honestly doesn't want to know about the ff I'm reading. We're not secretive, just not that interesting either. I honestly don't want to know his every thought
I can pretty much guarantee this is a shit post.
The reason why I'm adding that to it is because it's a HUGE part of our conversations. The ability to love people on different levels, being okay with loving multiple people, varying levels of intimacy. We've had multiple conversations about it being okay if we never move forward. I think I just feel most nervous about him being hurt that I'd want to move forward with someone else and not him. But honestly I don't know if he'd be upset. He's one of the most open minded people I know. I'm sure we'd need to shift our relationship but it's a lot deeper than romantic love. But also I'm here for advice so I can completely understand what you mean about avoiding ending the relationship. Tbh I don't want to end it but I would if I knew I was hurting him. And I will. I just want to know how he feels after I tell him everything. Full transparency.
It's either a kid or some guy who has never been around a woman trying to ragebait.
It is kind of like a death. The first year is going to suck hot. It’s really important to take care of yourself. Go to the gym and work out simply to keep depression at bay. Get meds if you need them. After that first year it will get easier by percentages.
They aren’t interested. Leave them alone.
I don’t know how you’re defining demisexual, but my understanding is that it means you don’t feel attraction until there’s a close bond, not that you’re incapable of forming new bonds once you’ve imprinted on your first love. You’re not a penguin.
Accept your boyfriends response at face value. If he tells you at other times that he loves you, and you believe this to be true, can you accept that he might reserve saying it to times when he really means it vs just getting an auto-response?
I'm not saying that you are wrong if you need to hear it more often. You may just not be compatible if you are forcing something that feels unnatural to him.
You leaving was reasonable, but her being upset is also reasonable. Sounds like an unfortunate situation that showed that the two of you aren’t the most compatible.
I think you should sit down with the builder and have a ball buster of a conversation. “As you know, we have cameras on the property. I heard your extremely inappropriate conversation with my husband. Regardless of whether anything he told you is true or not, we are only 30% through this renovation, and I am no longer comfortable working with you. Do you have any suggestions for how to handle the situation?” You may be able to wrangle some discounts or something out of him by putting him on the defensive, especially if he said anything out of line. You can finish off by letting him know that since your husband wants to be a big shot he will be handling the project going forward, but if things get fucked up because you were no longer in a position to manage the renovation properly, you expect to be fully compensated for the error, as you would not feel comfortable having them complete any repairs. (I'd get that in writing!) This should at least clue the builder into being on their A-game for the rest of the renovation.
I'm not sure how you handle finances as a couple, but fuck ups have consequences. In addition to having the responsibility of managing the project solo, I recommend that your husband pay for a larger percentage of the repairs personally. I can't say to what degree, but at least enough to cut into his personal or play money.
Finally, it's a great lesson in the virtue of professionalism for the builder. There's no reason to be talking to married clients about their sex life unless you're in the therapy business.
Your house your rules your pets. Also that’s the cats home not his.
Maybe she’s PRETENDED to be a great girlfriend because all she really cares about is how things look. At this point it seems like it’s getting hot to tell what’s real and what exists for her social media addiction.
That's part of the problem. She has an incredibly unhealthy, codependent view of parenthood.
Healthy parents, both single and together take breaks. They deserve them and it models healthy behavior in relationships including not constantly needing to be around your partner and taking care of yourself to your children. It gives them time outside of the presence of their parents to develop their own personality and relationships with relatives, friends or babysitters.
There are so many ways to do it, even if you have a deadbeat partner like I do. Sleepovers with friends or with relatives. Babysitters. Hell, his presence would have given her the opportunity for time for herself. He could watch the child, or eventually be a parent to the child while she has time for herself and vice versa.
This idea that it's acceptable, let alone mandatory to never take breaks and devote 100% of yourself to your child is really terrible, for everyone involved.
I’ve already had a conversation like that with her, and I told her I feel that way about her studies. She says she likes what she does, but I feel like she says that just to convince herself, because most of the time the only thing she does is complaining about the subjects she studies and I can sense she’s not really interested in it.
I told her she still has time to change or to give up studies and start working if she doesn’t feel like studying anymore, but she insists on the fact that she wants to keep doing it, even though she’s barely studying.
Wait what? Trying to get my head around how you could possibly be in any way at fault here‽
Your family are acting like trash. You’re well rid of this kind of toxicity.
Seriously. I watch one camping video and my algorithm is 50% alt-right for the next 6 months of nerd content.
Thank you. I’m just unsure of whether I should give him time to prove he can handle it maturely on his own or step in and make it clear I’m not accepting this friendship. Or if for now it’s sufficient to just be vocal and direct with my feelings on the matter, but still allow him time to solve it himself.
I just feel like he isn’t going to tell me if she keeps texting him all of the time without me asking about it, in order to avoid confrontation with me. But then it makes me feel like I’m the one bringing in the conflict since I’m bringing it up?
She has someone picked out she wants to sleep with. She wants your agreement. You should see how she reacts if you get with someone else. I suspect not well. This relationship is probably getting close to its end. You might as well have fun with it.
Just here to let you know I find it disgusting too when a partner watches porn while knowing it causes you pain.
What on earth would be the point? You’re not allowed to sleep with anyone then what on earth would keep you there
I agree with this. I never look at my husband's phone because I've never needed to. Just the fact that I can look is enough for me.
Kind of misogynistic, but ok.