He or she (32M) is someone I’ve been talking to for about per month. The other day I went over to his apartment to hang out (this was the third period we had hung out/I have been to his place).
We were laying in bed plus messing around. He had ordered Uber Eats so he proceeded to go in the living room to eat that, then I saw him go in the bathroom, then come back away and lay back next to me. He tried to hand me which I wanted plus consented to, but I actually asked him if he washed his hands right after using the restroom. He sighed and looked really irritated, but got up plus gave them a quick wash.
When we were producing out, the taste of whichever he had eaten was really bothering me. I politely requested him if he could clean his teeth real quick or use mouthwash (he was also planning to perform oral on me and I am prone to infections so I has been hoping he would care about our health enough to brush). He said “I’ve already gotten up like fifteen times! ” (he hadn’t) and laid in bed all pouty.
Eventually, right after laying there awkwardly not really touching each other because he seemed upset, I got up to use the bathroom. That’s when I saw pee and poop in the bathroom with the lid open. This means that he pooped, didn’t wash his fingers, then attempted to finger myself . If I did not request him to wash them, I could have an infection now. Also i glanced at the counter plus noticed he had no toothbrush, toothpaste, or mouthwash on the counter.
I walked to his room and informed him I’m leaving. We walked out the door immediately after that without confronting him with what I saw. He didn’t offer to walk me out or say cya. I feel disrespected but do not know if I’m overreacting.
What do I do? I don’t know how to bring this up to him. Is this normal behavior for many men?
Update: I have pink eye. I’m also done. After i confronted him he stated “got it sorry” plus that’s it.
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