I always let her take the lead and coach me in what she likes or wants. If she’s inexperienced I take it slow and have her ride on top, cowgirl i guess. It’s much easier for her to regulate speed, depth, and all that. Cowgirl is really good if you’re big or if you’re big. They usually get off really quick when they ride and it helps set the pace for what she will eventually like.
Honestly just go slow, communicate, and respect each other’s boundaries. Maybe even have a safe word. Going slow takes the pressure off of you both. Remember that sex is mutual pleasure. You can’t enjoy yourself if you’re worried about letting the other person down or one of you not cumming.
Communication is important before, during, and after. You need boundaries about what’s off limits and what you’re interested in and such. Communication during sex will maximize pleasure and build trust. Afterwords is basically an after action report about what was good and what wasn’t.
I always let her take the lead and coach me in what she likes or wants. If she’s inexperienced I take it slow and have her ride on top, cowgirl i guess. It’s much easier for her to regulate speed, depth, and all that. Cowgirl is really good if you’re big or if you’re big. They usually get off really quick when they ride and it helps set the pace for what she will eventually like.
Honestly just go slow, communicate, and respect each other’s boundaries. Maybe even have a safe word. Going slow takes the pressure off of you both. Remember that sex is mutual pleasure. You can’t enjoy yourself if you’re worried about letting the other person down or one of you not cumming.
Communication is important before, during, and after. You need boundaries about what’s off limits and what you’re interested in and such. Communication during sex will maximize pleasure and build trust. Afterwords is basically an after action report about what was good and what wasn’t.
I just started dating this girl so I'm gonna go get blackout drunk at a strip club!