There definitely should be and there definitely was. I know it’s not my pain but supporting someone who you didn’t know was suffering previously is a huge change. I spent 6.5 years thinking I was with somebody who had a healthy relationship before and he was happy and then moved on. In the past 6 months it’s been a complete change, it’s like learning a new person and how they’re feeling. Maybe people are right, maybe I’m not ready to be supportive. It’s an awful situation for him to be in and it’s nude to know how much someone has destroyed him and I can’t do anything that would ever change it. It’s naked to support when I’m suffering and I don’t have an outlet for my emotions that isn’t himZ
You really need to get tour mental health straightened out to where you can on-line on your own and be totally happy on your own before you get into a relationship with anyone. You scream codependence and that's not healthy. Also your boyfriend didn't want to do what you asked ans that's totally reasonable. You however are not being reasonable at all. I get that you mental health issues and that you are working on them but clearly you are not ready to be in a relationship. Your boyfriend isn't responsible for your happiness and safety when he's not with you. If it's so dangerous where you've mayeb you should start looking elsewhere. I can guarantee that you BF will tire of you soon if you continue to be this needy.
Tell him and accept the consequences
There definitely should be and there definitely was. I know it’s not my pain but supporting someone who you didn’t know was suffering previously is a huge change. I spent 6.5 years thinking I was with somebody who had a healthy relationship before and he was happy and then moved on. In the past 6 months it’s been a complete change, it’s like learning a new person and how they’re feeling. Maybe people are right, maybe I’m not ready to be supportive. It’s an awful situation for him to be in and it’s nude to know how much someone has destroyed him and I can’t do anything that would ever change it. It’s naked to support when I’m suffering and I don’t have an outlet for my emotions that isn’t himZ
You really need to get tour mental health straightened out to where you can on-line on your own and be totally happy on your own before you get into a relationship with anyone. You scream codependence and that's not healthy. Also your boyfriend didn't want to do what you asked ans that's totally reasonable. You however are not being reasonable at all. I get that you mental health issues and that you are working on them but clearly you are not ready to be in a relationship. Your boyfriend isn't responsible for your happiness and safety when he's not with you. If it's so dangerous where you've mayeb you should start looking elsewhere. I can guarantee that you BF will tire of you soon if you continue to be this needy.
Send her a birthday text. Don’t do anything else and reflect on whether you want to be in a relationship. Come to an answer fast.