My boyfriend doesn’t tel myself what time he will become home.

My (20f) boyfriend (20m) uses my car to go to work and to his moms house or wherever else he’s going. I used to ask him exactly what time he would be home and he would be home by that time. My dad told your pet that I’m being managing by asking this so now whenever I ask when he’s going to become home he says “idk” and just leaves. Am I getting controlling just by asking what time is he likely to be home?? I feel like I shouldn’t be called controlling over this and yes it really hurts my feelings to be called it.

Update: I just called him not too long ago and he said “I’m apologies I’m not doing what you need but I don’t know what you want me to tell you”