0 views
Dildo in pussy [926 tokens remaining]
Date: December 28, 2022
The ad code is not a valid HTML code.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
You may not realize it, but he is a sexual predator, and you have been groomed. He is slowly doing it with the other girl, too. He may allow her to be with other men for now until he further grooms her and gains enough control to make her just like you. He will probably try to add a 3rd before long. This is why he chooses young women. They have less life experience and are easier to groom. An older woman would not give him the chance. Understand what he is, what he is doing to you, and run. When he is out, pack up and leave. Don't look back. Go complete non-contact and never let him know where you are. Respect yourself and your self-worth.
!update me
Bump
Your relationship is messed up. Your girlfriend has to learn to on-line within a budget and to pay her bills. You have to learn to be generous and buy children’s toys.
According to people on here, start taking anti-depressants and/or get married and your problem will be solved!
I think if she asked her IRL social circles like her family and friends, she would get a similar response.
Sex work being taboo is not limited to the internet; if anything Reddit is way more open and accepting to it than most cultures globally
It's rape don't let people play it down, women need mens consent too.
Gotcha Ty for the response . Do you think I should keep in touch with her or no contact?
He wants to work in photography but he doesn’t want just any job. He’s very picky and wants a job that’s equal to his worth ( what he says). For now he’s independent and he’s doing freelance. But this doesn’t work too much and he’s barely selling anything
This is a rage post. Isn't it? How many girls date man old enough to be there fathers. Reddit makes me believe that a lot of them do it and it ends badly most of the times.
Do NOT move anywhere with this kid. He is not a man, he does not behave like a man, and he does not have the minimal skill-set required to be considered a functional adult; no hygiene routines, no chore schedule, and no motivation. Dump him before he becomes a full on homosexual who is dependent on YOU.
Then I don't think it's fair for your wife to expect you to cut her off. She made a mistake, she's not some monster.
and it's her choice
You answered your own question.
I know she kinda enjoyed it. She did it often. And then kinda reminisced about it once.
So it's like a high school test. A decade later I “reminisce” about the good old days of taking the ACTs. Doesn't mean I want to take them again
Take the dog and get away from the animal abuser. You are not going to be able to change your boyfriend
No. I'm from the UK. If a man called me a cunt like this I would be walking right away. Yes it's used more in the UK, but it's clear when it's not in a serious context. This is not one of those occasions.
In this context cunt is probably one of the most vile things he could say.
You should be talking about what you each want in a future regarding, money, careers, children, lifestyle, finances, etc.
You need to know that you want the same futures.
Try Gottman, he describes 'The Four Horsemen,' bad tendencies that pretty much doom a relationship. They can be dealt with, but… the parties involved need to be able to see for themselves what's up. Instead of counseling, try to read Gottman together and spark discussion. That kind of thing.
I was lucky, I was in the Army and we were able to go on Chaplain's Retreats and work on stuff.
lol
You’re treating guys like a commodity and are now upset that you feel like you’re being used as a commodity.
Yes, break up with you “new” bf and leave both of these men alone
He needs to see a doctor in general tbh because this is not normal and may eventually cause something dangerous.
I don’t know how you even made it in here with all the baggage you’re dragging everywhere. Whatever your issue is it’s got nothing to do with OP.
Relationships are work, and can be exhausting. Feeling like you need time alone or activities alone isn't a bad thing, and in a healthy relationship it's important to have a full life which includes your partner, but doesn't depend on your partner.
An important thing to consider is the concept of “code switching”, essentially that how you behave may change based on who you're around. You probably act differently around your parents than you do around your friends. You probably act differently at work vs at home. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but it's worth paying attention to how you act differently around your partner than you do when you're by yourself.
If you prefer the version that you are when you're by yourself, then see if you can take steps to make the the version with your partner more like the version by yourself. Give it time, since there are layers to unpack when it comes to getting to know someone and exposing yourself to someone. But, if you get to a point where you feel that, when your partner is around, you can't be the version of yourself that you want to be, then that would be a sign to either get outside help (couples counseling and individual therapy) if you can, or to consider ending the relationship.
Remember, your partner doesn't have to be a bad person in order to be a bad fit for you. Try to be patient and honest about how you feel, both to yourself and to your partner, but also don't feel like you must stick around just because your partner isn't a “bad guy”.
Leaving early with him seems like a good compromise. That’s what marriage is all about
It's totally fine OP, go for it
Sounds like you might be codependent
I think it's a bad precedent. I can see it ending up with you getting back together romantically, but I'm not hearing anything in your post to indicate you want that.
OK so do share that with the attorney but I don't think it is going to be particularly helpful. I do not agree with what he is doing but it does not sound like it will rise to the level of abuse.
The idea that you need to write this stuff already indicates some mistrust and problems. Maybe just go with the standard, “We promise to break up before moving on rather than cheating”. That covers the only thing that really matters. Good luck
If what you're seeking is the support to break up with this guy, consider it done. When you're clearly such a mismatch with another person it's just obvious that you can't stay together. You're 18, just barely starting adult life. You're not “hopeless”. You're just in a bad relationship.
The proper thing to do is file a restraining order on her.
You got her one or two? I think you said you were going with her. She doesn't want to take a friend that is into her music?
When I was your age I had an insufferable tendency to belittle other peoples' interests if I didn't think they were interesting myself. It took me years to realize how obnoxious this tendency was. I'm guessing you did something similar with her. It's pointlessly disrespectful and kind of stupid because opinions like this are – by definition – subjective.
For the record, I think sports are about as boring as you seem to think Taylor Swift is. I generally keep this opinion to myself, now. Regardless, it's good to at least try to dabble in your partner's interests so you can spend more quality time with them and get to know them on a deeper level.
I would suggest apologizing for looking down on a major interest of hers and committing to being more respectful in the future.
If she wanted to change this, she would. Her reasoning doesn’t matter – you can’t change how she handles this. It’s frustrating but true.
You're getting played. That guy is laughing at you with his buddies as he keeps u around for an ego boost as a side chick. Have more respect for yourself and be more observant and careful about who you choose to spend your life with going forward.
Sunday dinner EVERY week for 5-6 hours – nope, I’m out. That alone is excessive, the other stuff on top is ridiculous. I’m super close with my family but you can’t ask something like this from a partner/spouse and if you give your partner an out and attend all 3 alone, the relationship will still suffer. I think it’s a bad match and honestly I don’t know who this girl will match with. Her family also not seeing that this is a huge stress on any relationship is a problem in itself.
Since she kept the info, after your finding it, and continued to use it against you – welcome to the rest of your life (or at least as long as you stay with her). If you are not enjoying this, then it is time to move on. Note that she is 32, not 16. It isn't impulse behavior. It is (in all probability) ingrained insecure behavior (or, at worst, sadistic behavior- is she getting off on abusing you?). Good luck OP.
Now I remember you.
Dude, I think many of us already saw the red flag waving then.
It's up to you if you want this type of behavior, him badmouthing you to continue.
I don’t understand why you have put up with any of this more than a week
My mother suffers with depression and I’m convinced she has a bit of anxiety too actually. I just got used to it growing up. I don’t suffer from any trauma in my life or anxiety or depress though
Even if you didn't do enough, which doesn't seem to be the case, her moving to you has nothing to do with it.
It really feels like this is her emotional issues, but she us blaming you for her behaviour, because it is easier. You need to get her completely out of your life.