I don't think I'd count that as cheating but i definitely would be honest about how it makes you feel with your gf she might still be thinking you were completely ok with it
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I can’t think of anything specific that it has stemmed from in the past. I do know that his attitude ends up impacting our sex life, which makes things much worse. I don’t even want him to touch me.
You wanted advice, but you’re just here to argue with people in the comments and give your husband the silent treatment until he gives in.
Your husband doesn’t want to start to be a cash register for your family which is entirely understandable, so either tell him the whole story or you go get a job to help your sister. Even if you tell him he’s entirely within the right to refuse and not want to start lending your family money.
If you have to beg a man for him to exhibit accountability….. he’s not a man to be with.
Drop the rope on this guy, seriously.
Women, please for the love of god, raise your standards and throw these guys on their ass. You deserve so much more than begging for the bare fucking minimum.
I mean you knew he was like this BEFORE you moved in together. Not sure why you moved in knowing this. He won’t change. And frankly he sounds disgusting
Doubling down on the semantics and context is a moot point, and makes you look obnoxious and arrogant.
By the way, the N word is in fact derogatory and inappropriate in any culture, no need to bring the dictionary out. Swallow that pride my dude and acknowledge you used a gross word.
Dating is an interview process. The point is to get to know people to see if you're a fit and you're compatible. If he “didn't like” most of them, that means they're not right for him.
I think you're going out of your way to create a problem where one doesn't exist. First, who cares if she takes the relationship seriously or not? Second, he asked her out, she said now, and he carried on living his life. Is he supposed to wallow in misery over a rejection for a year?
It's completely unreasonable for you ask to see chats. Either you trust him or you don't. If you continue like this, this won't last long. Good luck.
She is remorseful that she was caught
I don't think I'd count that as cheating but i definitely would be honest about how it makes you feel with your gf she might still be thinking you were completely ok with it
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I can’t think of anything specific that it has stemmed from in the past. I do know that his attitude ends up impacting our sex life, which makes things much worse. I don’t even want him to touch me.
He doesn’t keep secrets (well. that I know of.)
Move on, this isn’t going anywhere. + why did he get angry?
You wanted advice, but you’re just here to argue with people in the comments and give your husband the silent treatment until he gives in.
Your husband doesn’t want to start to be a cash register for your family which is entirely understandable, so either tell him the whole story or you go get a job to help your sister. Even if you tell him he’s entirely within the right to refuse and not want to start lending your family money.
No I was an idiot who apparently can't read. Your throwaway was very similar to another I read, and I apologize for the accusation.
If you have to beg a man for him to exhibit accountability….. he’s not a man to be with.
Drop the rope on this guy, seriously.
Women, please for the love of god, raise your standards and throw these guys on their ass. You deserve so much more than begging for the bare fucking minimum.
I mean you knew he was like this BEFORE you moved in together. Not sure why you moved in knowing this. He won’t change. And frankly he sounds disgusting
You have used a slur, regardless of your intent.
Doubling down on the semantics and context is a moot point, and makes you look obnoxious and arrogant.
By the way, the N word is in fact derogatory and inappropriate in any culture, no need to bring the dictionary out. Swallow that pride my dude and acknowledge you used a gross word.
I thought those people were into trees.
spot on.
& for god's sake – kick him out already & get a new boo!
Compromise and he can join you at the beginning and/or the end of the race? Standing around outside for several hours is understandably unappealing.
But she’s still supposed to be your friend. Serious or not, that’s a line you don’t cross ??♀️ hope it was worth it
Dating is an interview process. The point is to get to know people to see if you're a fit and you're compatible. If he “didn't like” most of them, that means they're not right for him.
I think you're going out of your way to create a problem where one doesn't exist. First, who cares if she takes the relationship seriously or not? Second, he asked her out, she said now, and he carried on living his life. Is he supposed to wallow in misery over a rejection for a year?
It's completely unreasonable for you ask to see chats. Either you trust him or you don't. If you continue like this, this won't last long. Good luck.
Even if he does change his mind about marriage tomorrow, why would you want to marry someone like this? Genuinely, I don’t get it.
Get your stuff, say thanks for the vacations, and cut bait. You get one life. Don’t waste any more of it on this dude.
If I knew the answer to that I wouldn’t be here
I’m on anti-depressants and I was on tamoxifen. My husband saw it as his personal challenge.
You orgasm first and then your partner proceeds to orgasm. Then if you’re lucky you get a second orgasm.
You have a partner problem.
You wait until he's at work pack your necessary things for you and your son and run. File a police report for an order for protection. Do not wait.