If you guys are incompatible, it’s not because he likes classical literature and you like popular fiction. It’s because he’s a pompous, judgemental dolt. Why does he even see your taste in book genres to be an issue?! He sounds immature.
So his communication is the problem, when the ENTIRE issue is because OP didn’t communicate with him about how he hurt her every single time he fingered her during the course of their relationship?
I’d say they both are immature, both have massive communication problems, but OP caused it, and needs to deal with the consequences of he inaction.
I wish you the best in your life. Good luck.
You need to detach yourself
If you guys are incompatible, it’s not because he likes classical literature and you like popular fiction. It’s because he’s a pompous, judgemental dolt. Why does he even see your taste in book genres to be an issue?! He sounds immature.
So his communication is the problem, when the ENTIRE issue is because OP didn’t communicate with him about how he hurt her every single time he fingered her during the course of their relationship?
I’d say they both are immature, both have massive communication problems, but OP caused it, and needs to deal with the consequences of he inaction.