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Date: October 3, 2022
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Nope. Don't buy into it. Get out, live your life, don't accumulate any more emotional damage. He may even not have any intention of divorcing his wife, just having you as his mistress for as long as he can milk it.
If you want to make sure, ask him to show you the copy of the papers that were filed with the court. Then you'll know if he actually is trying to get a divorce.
You’re noticing…and that is always the first step. Right after your big break-up, you may have been trying to avoid looking, but now you are and you can see that those other relationships weren’t really fulfilling.
This will give you the opportunity to take a break from men/relationships and figure out what you really want. What was good about each of these people? What was not so great?
Take a deep breath and see what comes.
Okay what I meant to say is that it's very different. Unless this was your only friend and you had some sort of medical condition on your dick she could diagnose I don't see why someone would whip out their dick to show it to them.
Feels like there's a lot more going on here than your story. Hard to believe you're an innocent party in this and it feels more like you and your spouse are both being abusive to each other. And the video of physical violence? What is that even about? There are always two sides to a story and this one feels very tailored, js
Reading your responses shows you're either a troll or you love the drama.
Sending him screenshots from this thread to show him he's wrong? Not smart.
Having more kids with him? Not smart.
Continuing to stay with him after what he's said and him being a narcissist? Not smart.
Continuing to stay with him after he's told you he's a cheater? Not smart.
“But I love him.” You don't love anyone.
It's also not controlling to gave a general idea of when your partner will be home. Even without the “your car” involvement.
Not an updated itinerary. And it is reasonable that there will be many occasions when he might run into a mate or decide to do some last minute /spur of moment extra shopping.
But healthy relationship people unthinkingly WANT to tell their partner when to generally expect them home. It allows you to make both mundane practical relationship plans (ie: know if you should go ahead & make dinner alone etc as he will be in late) & make more emotional romantic relationship plans (ie: oh cause he's back early tonight, we can watch that Netflix movie together/ go out for a walk tonight etc).
And it is unthinkingly normal to shoot your bf/gf a text if something new comes up and you now will be home 2hours later than usually assumed.
It would be controlling if he said “babe, I'll be home a hour-ish later tonight as I'm going to the gym” and you said as a general rule: “no!!! You must be home at 630 on the dot, straight home from work!!” Or “no you are not allowed to do anything but go to work/ you're not allowed to go to the gym!!”
Telling your live-in partner when to expect you home and vaguely what your up to, is not just normal, but required to have a functional relationship.
If she feels that you overstepped her sexual boundaries, and you feel like you might have done that too…
Just give her the space she asks for.
Honestly, the two of you sound like you have so much bad history and complex emotions that it almost makes sense to start over. But if you’re going to wait for her to work through her feelings, I think you need to be willing to wait as long as she wants to take.
Girl! Y'all got in argument because he cheated then he returned the gift because of said argument??? And he only pays 300 in rent! Giiiirrrl wake tf up.
man the age gap and how long yall have been together is such a red flag. im not surprised that a man who was 25 dating a 19 y.o. turned out to be so immature. do you really want to raise a child with a man who acts like a child? not taking responsibility is a huge red flag regardless of the secret condoms. he’s definitely cheating, i’d look to move out or stay with friends/family. also get checked for std’s and maybe look into terminating the pregnancy. im sorry ur going thru this 🙁
It's the same, he's just pronouncing it funny to be even more annoying
I'll talk to him but I won't steer him away from his religion. it's not my plan to ruin his relationship with the religion.
Exactly. Trip A is easy and mostly money and responsibility free. Trip B she has effort and money she has to contribute.
The goal should be to do legwork ahead of time to make sure it’s fun with hubby, even when she can’t be coddled like a princess the whole time.
You obviously have no concept of a mother's sense of responsibility when it comes to her children. You would be hard pressed to find a woman who could let her ex raise the baby and watch from the sidelines. Yes he's saying he will step up, the fact is she doesn't want to be a part time mother. She doesn't want to know her baby is out there in the world being looked after by somebody else, SHE DOESNT WANT A BABY PERIOD.
Why do you keep claiming you do most of the chores? That’s impossible considering you’re working most the day.
She didn’t want to celebrate your anniversary because you didn’t look good enough for her social media.
What does that say about the future?
Is she gonna cancel your (possible future) baby’s first birthday party because they tripped and got a bruise on their forehead and can’t look cute for photos?
This is ridiculous. I’d think real long and hard about this honestly.
If love is a chain, rather than a buttress, then you will continue to suffer.
In life we often have positive feelings for those not worthy of them. That does not make us weak or foolish. The way we become those things is to deny reality for what we believe is convenient. You have an open wound that needs to be cauterised. Instead you are looking for ways to keep losing blood and not to die.
You had your chance to prod her to remorse and contrition and not only did she lie, the language was so slimy as to be able to say I never said I didnt! Imagine being that disrespectful when you know your are blown and are preparing a weak legalistic argument. What a pedantic harridan.
You simply have to accept that love and proximity are not intertwined. You have to blow the lid on it and then walk away. Sticking around will erode you will to live and ruin any chance you have in future happiness.
Because a break doesn’t solve anything. If you need to be apart to solve the problem you can’t really fix it. Additionally, it leaves ambiguity of a return. One person is somehow waiting for the other. Break up. Clear cut boundaries.
Additionally, he already is at his end.
Besides all problems, everything is always good. The issues are are important.
A IRL wouldn’t allow you to hide information (and problems you are having) and that keeps you accountable. Did you forget you had to tell him the truth — aka accountability?
If my niece comes home and eats crackers he is so paranoid abour the cookie crumbs. If i eat and drop crumbs he is so paranoid that i will attract bugs, however the house can collect dust and he is fine with it.
He gave up. Reignite it.
What a moron. This is what happens on a sitcom. Dude is delusional. I think marital counseling if your insurance offers it cause I would be damned resentful and embarrassed for years to come.
You have been asking this question in one way, shape or form for several months now and you have been given a multitude of answers. What more can any of us say?
Trauma bonds are real. When you’re treated poorly in the beginning and you are just looking to get back the guy you fell in love with, the trauma in your brain from the fluctuation between poor treatment/spurts of good treatment affects you cognitively. Then you begin to live in fight/flight mode for long periods of time. It does an absolutely number on your overall well-being. This increases stress and adrenaline chemicals in your system with no outlet.
Have you journaled? It is a good way to release cortisol.
She may not actually be “stronger,” she may just have a stronger sense of boundaries. She has her own grief, but she is not asking or expecting that you take that grief on for her. She has processed it herself in a healthy way so that she can be a healthy partner.
You are framing this like an inherent quality – she is strong, so she doesn't need you as much. But it's actually work she's done, and work you can do as well. Calling her stronger on some level absolves you of doing that work, because if it's just a character trait then it's not something you can control. But you can control how you manage your grief, and that starts with seeing an actual licensed therapist whose job it is to ease the burden.
yeah, i would have left him in the dust as well. It is a stupidly selfish and idiotic thing to do, and I have a friend who lost both parents in one night because of a drunk driver. THEY died instantly… he walked away without a scratch.
couple counseling, NOW !
First of all I don't see what would be different about my observations had I instead been a woman, but then again that does feed into your awful sexism that is on display here.
Secondly gaslighting isn't a catch all term for “when people say things I don't like”.