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Date: January 4, 2023
Your reaction is understandable, but what did she say when you confronted her? It sounds like she was happy with you so wondering if it was one of those stupid jokes between friends and she hadn't thought how it would look to you.
Yea i too would end it… shes abusive
Not me reading through because the guy I like is 18 years my senior… Uh- hyuk, I might be goofy
Do you feel as a creep?
You know nothing about depression then. Not really.
We’re long distance, nudes was our only option.
Also thank you for the comment!
The real issue isn’t the sweaty hairy stuff tbh, it’s that there are underlying issues in your relationship, which have affected your ability to be intimate with him. You could shave him bald and hose him off all you want, if the underlying relationship issues aren’t resolved it still won’t help your attraction to him.
Sometimes relationships have run their course, and end. It sounds like yours is mostly over. Best to pull the plug rather than subject both of you to six more miserable sexless months.
I have “the ex girlfriend box”. It sits in my home office, in the back corner. I never think about it, but never throw it out. I’ve purged some things, but how do you throw out letters from your first love, or something they spent hours crafting? Prom photos? My parents purged some things I left when I went to college, mostly things they bought, but the other things?
I’m 40M, happily married 13 years, together for 16.
Hitting objects to intimidate you is considered a form of physical abuse
Anal stimulation in straight men is nothing to do with being gay. Let’s just get that added to the conversation.
Let me just reinforce the point simply. You didn't fail him, he failed you. This isn't a you problem, you are more than enough, and it's not up to you to change him. What you need to do is grieve the loss of the relationship and move on in life. Reach out to your friends, do the things you enjoy, focus on your happiness and finding that again. Learn to be happy being you, so that when you are ready, Mr Right will be there.
When I met my husband, I had a dog that was my family. My (then) bf said he didn't like dogs in the house. I told him that it was nice knowing him. It took a while but now my dog and my husband are besties. We call us the 3 pack.
I would not get rid of my dog for a bf. Bfs come and go but a dog is your best friend forever.
Coming up on 4 years. We just recently got engaged.
It's basically a very weak acid exfoliant. You'd get far better results from using a properly formulated acid product (amlactin, cerave's salicylic acid cleanser, loreal's glycolic acid cleanser, etc) but some people don't realise that's what milk soaps are.
Maybe men your age don’t anymore. But people my age do. And if you’ve dated a 18-25 year old recently, you would notice that their expectations are a lot higher than what you would think.
My money is on her turning it into a 3 way spitroast
Why are you even contemplating staying with him? No guy is this special. He wants you to follow his rules while he has sex with whoever he wants. What part of this sounds even remotely reasonable? I’ll tell you what part…NONE OF IT.
I’m sorry to tell you, but your picker is broke. You need to figure out, through therapy or however, why you keep picking men who behave this way. This is not normal and most women would not accept it at all.
Just like drugs, murderer, rape, violence. Still isn't reason to be considered fine.
It's not weird that you clean your house, it's how you try to make yourself look like the good guy by doing so. If it's so normal, why do you even mention it? It's just as normal for a woman to decide for herself whether to stay home or go to work. You seem to want credit for very normal things.
I mentioned it because we are on reddit. If I don't mention that I help with chores and child caring, there will be people who will tell me that it's my fault because ” I obviously don't help my wife with the child and the house so she is stressed.”. That's why I specified it, to prevent those kind of comments.
If she actually listed that as a reason – I want to have time with my son without being disturbed – and you didn't question it further, you don't seem to care what's really going on.
It's not that I didn't question further. It's that I couldn't get anything else out of her…
If you have a friend who he wouldn’t recognize then ask if that friend could be nearby. Definitely don’t ask the guy you kissed to do it though
This! Take the energy she's been putting into massages and laying out his clothes and put it toward investing in herself.
Other posts have already mentioned red flags that are being displayed by your husband, and the one thing I haven’t seen mentioned is why you are not listed on the house insurance. Is the house not in both yours and your husband’s name?
ARGH! NOOooooooooooooo!!!!
Just because one insecure smegma-factory says he doesn't like your personality (he does, by the way; he's been dating you for a year and a half) doesn't mean anyone else feels that way.
JESUS, WHAT A DOUCHEBAG!
OP, do you remember in grade/middle school, when the mean girl told you you'd be so pretty if you just lost some weight, or else just straight up told you you were fat? Yes? And now you know that it wasn't because you actually were fat, but because it gave her power over you to be able to make you feel bad about yourself? Remember that?
THIS IS WHAT YOUR PRICK OF A SOON-TO-BE-EX BF JUST DID TO YOU. Yes, and you fell for it. He negged you, is what he did. Why? because you're too masculine? No, it's BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO AWESOME. Literally. You're awesomer than he is and it made him feel insecure, so he tried to cut you down to his size.
YOU DO HAVE A SICK LIL PERSONALITY!!! Go lean in on that and block this donkey sac everywhere. HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOUR QUEENLY ASS.
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST
I was super freaked out that you were my ex! Haha I was arrested for spitting too. I thought I was alone.
Keep work professional. Don't allow yourselves to be alone. You've acknowledged you're attracted and won't cross the line, then stick to your principles.
Before I continue, I want to apologize for coming off as mean with what I'm about to say, because as it went through my head, it felt like I was here attacking you. The reality is I'm on your side here and think this is all a ridiculous ask, but I'm pressing the issues because I want to understand all of the information, especially if you feel a need to justify your argument to her with facts and logic unrelated to the fact that it puts you in an awkward position with your parents.
They land at 11. Checking bags? Add at least an hour. Not checking bags? Still add time. How would they be getting to your place? How far is your place from the airport? What time exactly is their flight in the morning? The details there are the difference between being able to comfortably sleep off a layover for hours without it being a logistical nightmare, vs. coming to your home just to turn around and go back to the airport.
this is a you problem. you were broken up and he had consenting sex with another adult. you can get over it, or decide not to.
Reminds me of a post a while back where a man was “dating” a literal child and all his friends would make fun of him for it and give him crap, but wouldn't do things like say they no longer wanted to associate with a known predator or call the cops on him because he was their friend. I wonder how far your loyalty goes? If he kills his girlfriend will you be visiting him in prison? How bad does he have to be to other people for you not to want to associate with him or is it all ok as long as he doesn't abuse you?
Okay, I know you don’t think you’re condoning his behaviour, but by staying his friend, that is what you’re doing. You say you aren’t with your words but by being his friend you are telling him “I don’t like that you verbally abuse someone but it’s not bad enough that we’re going to call you out on it.” You are giving him an out. I’ve seen one of your comments where you do seem to have come to this conclusion, so that’s good. I hope you and your girlfriends can have a good discussion about this. Like someone else said, imagine how you would feel if he was doing this to a sibling or close friend of yours. In all reality, it doesn’t matter who he abuses, it’s still abuse and you should feel nearly as angry as if it were personal.
Wishing you the best of luck, and I especially hope his girlfriend gets out of there
I think you should be honest with him. Let him know you do have a genital preference. Or at the very least, tell him you are unsure if you would be comfortable doing sexual things while he still has a vagina. I would ask him if he plans on going through with surgery. He might not even want too and that would be important to know.
Also though, if you really care about him, you never know, you may become comfortable with his genitals as they are.
This is a bizarre post. Many many very intellectual people with stressful jobs like to unwind with breezy fiction.
This guy is a tool who was looking for an excuse to give you shit about something—stop wasting your time.
I took him back before I knew this.
It depends on what you mean by school squad – my bf and I are friends with mostly the same people from home as we joined the friend group together. He has met my friends from uni but I am very close with them and meet them outside of uni so it was easy to bring my bf along in a purely social environment.
I have communicated to him about it and hes clearly very receptive but doesnt know what he can do. He isnt close enough to them nor does it seem a big enough issue to talk to them about it so he just feels stuck because it bothers me so much.
Thanks for reply again I appreciate it 🙂
OP, consider the things that friends share. They moan about the people they have crushes on and they reveal the less pleasant parts of themselves. Things you can do with a friend but not with someone you know is harboring lust/romance thoughts about you. She'll probably get over it with some time. But hitting on someone who's trusted you to be a solid platonic friend is a blow. It often feels like a betrayal and it takes some distance to recover from.
It sounds like the two of you are sexually incompatible. If sex is one of the relationship priority items, then there could be problems in marriage. Maybe your “cold feet” about marriage is trying to warn you to maybe delay the marriage until issues are worked out, or the two of you break up.
Yep! Pick a fight that faults the other person, see the side piece, come back later and half a$$ an apology. Rinse and repeat.
Hence OP's initial gut reaction – which she should have trusted – to break up.
First of all, I'd recommend that you stop thinking of your upcoming wedding day as a “Grab and Go.” Yes it will be small and simple, but it can still be super-meaningful if you adjust your attitude. You're getting married in just a week to the man you love, with your grandparents there to witness the happy event. That's a beautiful and special milestone in your life, not at all equivalent to a casual trip to the local convenience store!
You can still have the small, elegant wedding of your dreams, if that dream lingers on as an item on your bucket list. Start saving money from every paycheck, and when your new husband has been promoted several ranks up, you've had a few raises at work yourself, and you have finally amassed enough money in your “Dream Wedding” account, you can plan to renew your vows in a formal ceremony (religious if you want it to be), with your family and friends there to help you celebrate. You can have the white wedding gown, the hair and makeup, the color-coordinated attendants, yada yada yada. Straight out of the magazine pages.
But don't be surprised if, when you finally save up enough money to fulfill your wedding dream, you decide with your husband that you don't need a second wedding after all, because the first one did the trick quite nicely. You may decide to put that money toward other uses that are more relevant to your shared goals as a family – your first home, a new baby, a special anniversary trip. Your dreams are likely to shift as you move through your 20s and beyond, and that's OK too.
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I wish you both a lifetime of love and joy.