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Date: January 5, 2023
It kind of sounds like you're blaming your performance problems on her. It also sounds like she's exhausted and you don't recognize that, especially since she just wants someone else to fuck you so you'll stop bothering her about it.
You have 2 kids under 7 and overwhelmingly women are the ones who shoulder the housework, childcare, and mental load. She might be more into the sex if you carried more of your weight in the relationship and the home. Women who have to take care of their husband like he's just one more of the kids, or just roommates, don't tend to find that person as sexually attractive.
I would suggest counseling, but she might not want to go if she already knows that the problem is the inequity in responsibilities. So better yet – talk to her about it, like actually talk and listen to why she's feeling the way she is and then step up and do your part.
Do not go to couples therapy with an abusive partner. You may not think that describes him, because he’s not hitting you and verbally abusing you the majority of the day. However he is abusive. If he wasn’t like this, you would be able to talk things through with him without him blowing a gasket (no matter how stressed he is).
The fact that you seem to feel you have to walk on eggshells while trying to de-escalate his reaction speaks volumes.
HE is the one with the problem, not you.
Please elaborate ..
Reddit.
UPDATE!
So, the same day in the evening, an opportunity came of me sending a video to him and addressing my insecurities. He was in fact super supportive, so much so that I ended up on the floor crying because he said things hardly anyone ever says to me (in the positive way).
So yeah, I am now no longer scared. Especially not since I am starting to work out anyways so I am hoping to be even happier with my body by the time the meet up happens 😀
Thanks to everyone who left advice, you were all amazing!