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She’s 20 and you’re getting engaged? Hectic. Yeah and she’s cheating on you with that girl. Also maybe explore a bit more before engaging someone
Time. You will recover. I know it hurts right now, but it's helpful to remember that emotion is transient. It comes and goes and you won't feel this way forever.
You are literally a vortex of destruction, a destroyer of families, a black hole of trust. People like you are the reason I’ll probably be single forever. You terrify me.
Thank you
If it's in a pretty visible spot, your friend is probably fine with people noticing it and pointing it out.
If he knows you know, I don't see this issue of commenting on how well done the tattoo is. It's not like you're going up to him and saying “hey, I noticed your tattoo means you've probably tried to kill yourself, nice”.
Wait.. you’re 24, he’s 42 and your kid is 8? A 34 year old man impregnated a 15 year old and you’re letting your son be influenced by a predator?
She cheated on you you fucking doormat, have her have the abortion and then leave, look out for yourself.
Also another thing is that he masturbated thinking about this girl he liked when he was 28. This was obviously before me but I got mad at him for doing so because I told him that I could be the only one to give him pleasure and I didn’t like how he thought about another girl while jerking off even if he wasn’t with me. Is this unhealthy behavior from my part or is his more unhealthy than mine?
But he doesn't want me to come over because it's disrespectful to have me over as it is technically still half her house.
I find this super interesting. He thinks it's disrespectful to her to have you in the house. He doesn't feel the past two years of keeping you and his actual life totally separate isn't disrespectful of you??
You can't use trying to “respect” someone as an excuse to essentially disrespect the person who's meant to be one of the most important people in your life.
Trauma doesn't make you a better partner in fact it can if left undealt can really scar you in a way that makes relationships very difficult. You do seem to romanticize “Trauma” and seem to think it makes you a better person and able to deal with tough situations in better ways and the reality is much more complex and far from that simple. You could be taking advantage of his trauma to bend his will toward your desires as well. In my opinion, I also think it's kinda messed up and I don't think you really understand how trauma affects people in so many different ways. I think that being with someone and finding out they are traumatized is one thing but looking for men who are traumatized on purpose is messed up.
Yes ^
the sisters’ parents are really religious and this is her first semester of college… she’s having a moment for sure
Thank you. She asked me for this opinion on her, and I asked him instead what he thought as a more objective party. He was right next to me. She has pulled me aside and told me she is “sick of his unsolicited advice” but really, he just cares about her and is trying to give some advice.
It is messy. I am at odds with what to do. I know she's not an unkind person, in fact she's quite a kind person people do say that, and I will talk to him about that. But I'm just trying to get her to see that no one is attacking her.
I don't want to have to choose between my daughter and my partner.
Since when is casually dancing with someone (who you're clearly not interested in) in a public space something to be worried about?
I’m with the husband. Looking at your post history you always have something to say about your Husbands family. Like your Father in law’s profession. No one likes to hear when you shit talk about their family.
Your third cousin is pretty much a genetic stranger. Do with this what you (meaning you and your gf) will.
Also ask her what had happened she may have felt she wasn't in a safe position to say no.
I Will not mansplain to my wife how to have safe sex
Ick. You've known her since she barely hit puberty. She has treated you as an adult support figure that entire time. You've set the completely arbitrary age of 20 as the point you'll start dating but… I mean, at what point did you start considering her sexually viable and in what ways did that impact how you interacted with her.
Like it isn't just the age gap. It is the inevitable and valid concerns of [perhaps unwitting] grooming. You've had a deep dynamic with her for some time and as the older party it is a worry you seem more concerned that she might consider you too much of an uncle figure to consider romantic interaction.
Just reflect on that. The age gap is only part of the problem, it is the relative length of your dynamic as well as the intensity of it.
I sure hope you find the answer, everything you said is the same thing that happens between me and my wife at the moment. I am completely drained from it. Thankfully we don’t have kids or pets and her way of “shutting down” is by spending crazy times on Netflix, which in result feels like we haven’t had any intimacy in forever. I’m not sure what to do, but I hope you guys be okay!
That’s sexual assault plain and simple. He did not consent to that. You should be thrown in jail for rape.
Two things here: first, it’s not you who is throwing away the relationship; second, you‘re making the sunken cost fallacy. Say you brush this off and stay with her another year, and then this issue crops up again and you finally realize you need to leave her. At that point you’ve “wasted” two years with her.
A bunch of your girlfriend’s “friends” witnessed her get raped and did nothing? I find that extremely nude to believe
Get rid of the dog before you risk your babies life. Or your own. You’ve already risked your other dogs life 3 times, don’t let it happen to anyone else.
And just how long does she think this responsibility goes on for…..stop this nonsense and tell her she she can take her number and get her own account or you will shut down end of story. Stop feeding her stupidity.
Nest he ll be buying her presents, dude .. end it. Hotel per person are for conferences
Yes
It's one thing not to be into something, it's something else to judge and disrespect your partner based on what they are into. It's not like you're watching some weird porn and snuff films- just very very mainstream entertainment.
Please don't let anyone control what you can and cannot watch on TV when you are by yourself. If he can't get over that- good luck to him finding a guy who has the same complete lack of interest in the majority of popular entertainment.
Yes. No excuse to cheat ever. If you truly love your partner, you will not cheat on them. That is truth
Oh yeah that thing, I remember that thing.
Looks like she isn't telling you something that she has witnessed your mom doing or saying that has broken her trust in some way or another? There could be numerous things going in behind the scenes that you don't know about especially for a sudden change in attitude towards your mom. Id want to sit down and have an honest conversation with her without you defending your mother automatically- because she may have some valid points and maybe you're just too closed off to realise.
I was about to post this!! Fuck that guy. DTMFA
Stop wasting your time with this guy. He's not being honest or fair with you and never will. I know you think he has “some good qualities” and you think that means there's an actual worthwhile human in there, somewhere. Something I learned after many years and too many guys like that: there is in fact NOT a human in there. A piece of shit cheater is simply a piece of shit and he'll never be anything more.
Unfortunately, there’s not many problems that just go away with time and it’s probably wishful thinking with this one too. That said, I haven’t been through this to tell you yes or no for sure. But it hasn’t gone away or faded yet and it sounds like it’s been going on for a while.
Your therapist might be able to talk with the new person and get them up to speed, but regardless it sounds like getting a new person up to speed will take less time than has already been spent with this therapist on the issue.
This right here, OP.
I also seen similar behavior to a friend of mine. His gf would get blacked out drunk, falling on the floor in the club and calling him a loser. The worst part is that she did that in front of us, his friends.
I told him I would have broken up with her on the spot, but he didn't, and now, 5 years later, they are still together and with similar problems.
My man is too afraid of being alone and talking to other girls, too bad for him since he is quite an OK guy apart from his choice in women.
I would say this is a good answer in general, but I think people are brushing his feelings off a bit too easily.
I agree it is a stupid conversation to have, nothing good can come out of it. I would wait and try to relax and see how things go. If she really had that excited look and behaviour while talking about it, it is kind of messed up. You don't do that to your partner.
Imagine if we reversed the roles and the man was talking about exes in that fashion. We would be all screaming RED FLAG RED FLAG!
Penis size is a big (pun unintended) insecurity in men and a nude one (again unintended…maybe) to demolish. Problem is men feel like they are not allowed to be insecure or they think they are not allowed because…they have to be strong and manly right?
He is absolutely getting in his head, but at the same time she doesn't seem to really understand whats going on?
I would like an update on this.
No time like the present. I can't see making the decision and then waiting around for weeks.
It's like you are afraid you are going to hurt her in some way. Maybe so, but no more than the rupture of her hymen. Just simply tell her you need a sexual relationship and that is not this. Don't let her talk you out of anything.
Hereafter, she will either go take care of the problem, or she won't see it as such a big deal that you rejected her for virginity.
No I don’t think so. I think I was extremely kind, patient, and loving and I dated an actual sociopath. I think it has really wrecked me actually. I dated someone who never loved me and is a chameleon, he never shows any true emotion. So yeah I guess you know what I’m the one who is at fault for not leaving. I stood by his side through a lot when I didn’t need to. He went to jail for making a death threat to a government official, guess who was the only person to support him? I could easily have found someone else, I have never had any criminal record, in graduate school, have a solid job. I’m loyal, honest, and empathetic. He saw it as a weakness and a way to manipulate me. I would smell alcohol on him and he would gaslit me and use my fragile state against me having me question myself. Only to later find evidence that he was actually drinking. He had a whole identity of being a “sissy” for 5 years where he was online, meeting men, going to sex shops, etc. and I had not even the slightest idea. It was traumatizing to find it all out. And yet I still forgave him and put his feelings first.
My father is on his death bed from a neurological disease and I’m very fragile from it, instead of supporting me and being loving, he has used it against me to spin a narrative and control me. It’s awful. It’s so awful. I’m not at fault at all, I don’t need to be told I am because that’s how I ended up staying for much longer than I should have. I’m angry because this proves to me that he really did never love me. I don’t think he is actually capable of love. I truly think he is a sociopath and compulsive liar.
I held on because I hoped that the person I thought he was would materialize. But I see who he truly is and it’s scary.
How is asking a question sneaky?
You’re the one who’s selling themselves for food & entertainment..
Still haven’t acknowledged you’re posting the same story consistently & changing ages.
Also I’m a women but whatever floats your delusion boat
Joke time:
Q: What do you call people who use the rhythm method as birth control? …. …. …. A: Parents
Clearly you want to be exclusive. You have to broach that conversation with him. It may be that he is not ready for that yet, and then you will have to decide if you can continue going like this
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My girlfriend considers cheating and playing FIFA on the same level of disrespect. She says that I do not spend enough time with her and prefers to sleep and play FIFA, she considered this worst than cheating on her, what should I do?
Dude… you were not a side piece. I dont know what you were. The janitor from a random hotel would get more attention from her rather than to give it to you.
If I'd come to you and read these exactly words you wrote what would you say? ” Nah youre just imagining it”?.
Like cmon man… move on have have some critical and logical thinking. My words might be harsh but this ridiculous.
That breaks my heart
Honestly, you don’t even need the text in the post. The title alone is reason enough to end things. If you can’t see a future with someone you should end it and find someone that you can see a future with. 8 years is a long time but it wasn’t a waste of time. You learned and gained life experience.
I would say that you shouldn't be in a relationship with her anymore. She is a walking talking red flag herself. People that cannot cut past relationships from their lives are a walking talking red flag. And I am going to elaborate on that. 1)She says it is platonic but the guy is a guy and when a possibility arises that he can have sex with her again he is going to go for it without a care in the world for their “friendly” relationship. You can break her bumble about it, tell her to call him and say that you 2 had a fight and that she wants to forget you. Then wait for his reaction. He is going to fall for it. That she thinks he is a friend it is not the same case for him. That she considers him a friend is not that he is also considering her as a friend and not a potential future fuck. 2) a person that still has someone that she only fucked in her life is a magnet for future unneeded drama and she is opening every door there is possible. She clearly didn't protect her future relationships because no one needs someone that have the previous sex partners in the present. If they are in the past they should stay there and not be present in the present and the future of that person. It is not that nude. 3) if you have people from your past in your present then they are not in your past anymore and they are your present. It means that you never got truly over them in the first place. 4) don't fall for the crap people are going to say here that it is totally normal, they are never going to speak the truth in the first place because they want to put the mask of a good person while they are not. They are never going to say that in a fight with a relationship they went and fucked the so called “platonic friend” even one time. They are never going to admit that they are keeping them around because of the attention they are getting from that person. Don't let them make you feel that what you are feeling is wrong, it is not. You are not insecure about wanting boundaries. Never back down from them and don't fall for the trap of shaming that most women do. 5) it is too early in the relationship and she already opened a can of worms while you didn't bring drama. She did though. If you want to continue that relationship you have to prove to her that he is not her friend and when that happens she has to put a stop to it. Tell her to call him using that excuse. Then you will both have the answer where this relationship is going to go. In your place I would totally move on though because she wants to play delusion while the reality is totally something else. That person is not a person you need in your life.
That breaks my heart
1.- You sound like a handful. 2. It was just a drunken outburst.
Anyone who had cared for someone vulnerable for a while will have this thoughts running around their head. Whether it's dating someone with issues, or taking care of an elderly person
Well, it’s time to end the relationship and spend some time alone discovering who you are.
I hate it when my partner compliments me by complimenting my weight loss. It reminds me that love is conditional on my being a certain weight .
There are so many red flags here. This man can’t tolerate you doing things in your life that don’t revolve around him, so he badgers you about it, throws a fit, disrespects your boundaries, and repeatedly argues about it. In addition, when you didn’t change your plans to pick up his child, he shamed you for it. And now he’s got you feeling guilty about it. Ugh.
Look, you sound awesome. You sound like a well-rounded, interesting people who’s got their head screwed on straight. If you stay with this guy, he will pick and pick and pick at you until you fit into the mold he wants. There will be none to little of you left. And it’s great that you help out with his child here and there, but she’s not your responsibility, and he clearly wants the woman he dates to become a nanny for her. That doesn’t sound like you at all. And why would you want it to be? You’re young and single and not a mom and you enjoy your time to yourself. This that is wonderful!
I see that you’ve responded to other suggestions with “I’ll try that,” but nothing you do will change the fact that the guy you’re dating doesn’t respect you or your choices.
I agree that creating pornography isn’t as shady as sex tourism, but I do think it should be discussed earlier on in a relationship since it’s a dealbreaker for SO many people
and now that he's found out and is upset, she's mad that he's “judging” her.
she’s taking OP’s reaction as him judging her. I think for the most part OP’s reaction is because she lied to him by omission for so long about something important and took his agency away from making an informed decision.
Why do you thought we were both 18/19 what seems off for you?
So he isn't paying and you said in another comment you do all the cleaning and he doesn't even wash his own dishes. He needs to make some big changes fast or you should kick him out before he earns tenant rights.
No wonder she's divorced. No one would put up with that shit.
Way to be there for the suckers bro. Nobody means to make a mad marriage.
I can't help but think what if you lost her and what you had left of her were the hours of passion and love she personally put into each of these creations entirely just for you. I know if I lost my wife that would mean the world to me.
There’s nothing to talk out, he grabbed your throat. Get the hell out of there now. He will cry and promise to never it again but he will
I'll just say this: both times my partner said he didn't want me going through his phone because of “privacy”, he was hiding something.
Your husband is dumb. And cheating.