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Th3 two of us, 28 y.o.
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Date: January 20, 2023
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Thank you so much for the reassurance and advice. It really does help to hear it from someone else. You are absolutely right.
For the plan, I'm just kind of seeing where it goes, if it goes anywhere. Seeing if anything builds organically. We've both been through the ringer when it comes to toxic relationships. We are in no rush, we have no expectations. Right now it's just basically a fwb situation which I know can be risky. Yet the last thing I wanna do is put pressure on something if he's not ready to start dating again. I myself am keeping the mentality of “whatever will be, will be” But I do care deeply about him as a person. He is so funny, wonderful and so down to earth. Heck I'd date him in a heartbeat. We were supposed to meet again but then sadly his father's health took a turn.
We are 3 states away from each other so we both drive halfway to meet in the middle every now and then. Conviently we both have a friends house to crash at when we do see one another. Both of which are trying to persuade us to move there. (We're thinking about it!)
I would rather been shutdown earlier than having this feeling of being manipulated. I dont blame her, we had different feelings. But she was taking advantage of it, which hurted me.
This is going to be a rough response but you are a man and you need to get over this. This lady wanted the wedding not the marriage. She got her dream wedding but didn’t want you. Now that she has to actually be married to you and be your wife she is freaking out. In my opinion some of these ladies need to hire a male model and do pretend weddings like my daughter does pretend shopping sprees and pretend cook outs when she has play dates with her friends (my daughter is 7).
That’s what I think of your soon to be ex wife. This isn’t Afghanistan and you can’t force her to stay. File the divorce papers and find yourself a traditional religious woman if any are left. Don’t marry women like this because what you are which is inexperienced sexually is a complete turnoff to her.
Im about to be 25 this year. 30 is when pregnancies first start to become high risk. And when a womans fertility starts to reduce / decline. Im already a high risk currently, along with losing one fallopian tube, making each month I ovulate a 50 – 50 chance. Decreaseing my odds of fertility. Once I hit 30, things will start to become concerning. I understand it maybe sounds weird, but all sorts of things could go wrong within 5 years and could still be trying / struggling for a successful pregnancy. It's not that im getting too old. it's just that each year could pose more concerns. I understand where he is coming from. Especially if I decided to hop on birth control for a year, that could impact my fertility chances as well. Once I decide to stop, I may not overulate regularly or be able to get pregnant again for another year or two. That's what his biggest concern was.
Before she had a child?
Pretty sure it still takes a sperm to make a child….
You guys get so emotional when ya asked to take responsibility for your actions.
This has nothing to do with the relationship that failed, it has to do with the care of a child they had together.
? you maybe right. I hope we can manage to get together.
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Question: have you two tried couple's counseling? Would she be open to it?
Has she been to the doctor and shared her lack of interest in that level of physical intimacy?
He has definitely been consuming some MGTOW bs. This isn’t normal.
You are underreacting right now. Think of the message this is sending to your kids!!!
Stay out of it. He needs to learn to back off, you can't teach him that
That’s why it’s ‘if you need to’. To let her know that whatever decision she makes that he’ll be supportive. She’ll still have to make the call as to stay or not but at least she’ll not feel alone in the decision.
I’m hoping her daughter sees this post!
Yeah we’ve actually been doing that for a few months now
Do the therapy. This won’t go away on its own. I’m am introvert. My partner is an extrovert. We were fine until their job became WFH due to Covid. After three years of being home together I feel like I’m dying. They have some health problems that keep them from doing hobbies out in the world. So the kids and I are their only in-person socialization. I feel like I have a toddler again. They are always on me. And they do not understand my deep NEED for predictable time alone. It’s like their brain cannot process that anyone would feel this way. We are working through it, but it’s not fun.
I will