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Date: January 24, 2023
I couldn’t give you an exact number been getting that advice since I was 15(20 now).
Intrusive thoughts got to him
The thing I find most bizarre about this story is that you speak of wanting to settle down and raise a family but then casually mention in passing that you're also going to move to Ukraine (a literal warzone!) for work.
If you are serious about having kids then you should become a healthier weight for both the sake of your health and for lowering your risks during pregnancy. You should also have a realistic think about work and where you are going to on-line because most rational parents (or parents-to-be) are doing their best to flee Ukraine rn.
IMHO, it kind of sounds like you're already moving on with your life. You can't force your BF to marry you just to tie in with your biological clock and expectations of family life, you need to work though everything first and develop a happy relationship actually worthy of marriage. You seem to be viewing everything from the angle of “I'm cured of depression now so marry me because I want babies now!” rather than thinking about your BF's wishes for marital life and what he wants (where does the home he bought for you both also factor in when you're going off to Ukraine for work??).
Have you considered freezing your eggs? Because it sounds like that would take the pressure off the biological clock for a while (which pretty much seems to be your main and only incentive for pursuing marriage).
How important are things like your sex life and sexual attraction in the relationship to you? Because it sounds like your BF isn't attracted to your current weight and doesn't want to sign a life contract with someone who he might already be suffering from flagging physical attraction to. When you marry someone you are very much making a statement of fully accepting that person as they are (right there and then) for life and it sounds like your BF is very conscious of this fact. Are you two really on the same wavelength at all?
I feel like you put the bare minimum thought into this.
I'm surprised that you're still there. Sounds to me like he wants a mother not a partner. You're a chore?!? Move on to someone that actually adores you. Normally I'd say counseling or something, but that sounds horrible. By the time my wife gets home I'm exhausted (sahd homeschool teacher and health issues) but I'll be damned if I will miss out on her smile. If she's not feeling what I made for dinner, I'll happily make her something else. You deserve much better, your energy should be matched without question or rude ass comments.
He didn`t have a job for two months and was living with his sister, who paid rent by herself for that time. I never supported him financially.
He has always been open to the possibility of going to therapy but I don`t think he has the time or money to afford it at the moment. He works 12 hour shifts 6 days out of the week.
Due to him being on parole, he has to attend substance abuse classes which he does but they don`t offer him anything for his anger issues. He knows he has anger issues but I`m afraid he doesn`t know how to deal with them. When he gets into a conflict with his family for example, he often doesn`t stick up for himself because he is afraid that if he does, eventually he`ll lash out at them and he doesn`t want that. I know that I am not responsible for him but I also believe that he`s not a lost cause and that he can learn to handle his anger issues better. But the road to get there is already a hot one… I just don`t want to give up on him.
Three days? Ask her if she had an accident and ended up in hospital for three days, or stranded because of weather for three days, is it then okay for you to cheat too?
Three days? Ask her if she had an accident and ended up in hospital for three days, or stranded because of weather for three days, is it then okay for you to cheat too?
Invite her to sit in the room. Then close the door with her, BF and you inside. Then begin to qgressively make out with BF in front of her. That's what she seems to want so give it to her.
Or just pee on her to establish dominance if plan A does not yield desired results.
I feelt the same way when I first read that sentence. Something is going on
But not OP's circus, not OP's monkeys. They all betrayed her. Setting boundaries and peacing out is a good idea
Yes. Stand your ground. The language is full of words with murky definitions, you need to be with someone who shares your lexicon.
My last relationship my partner and I had different views on cheating. So when she cheated, she didn't think she was cheating. She knew I didn't like what she was doing but kept saying “it's not cheating.”
It wasn't cheating to her but she knew it was to me. Me, the person who she was allegedly committed to.
If it's cheating to you then it's cheating. This is your boundary, not hers. And she doesn't respect your boundary. She doesn't respect you.
That's all there is to it. If she can't back down and say “I was wrong” you need to get out. You don't need to adjust to her boundaries. She needs to adjust to yours.
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
Don’t be stupid.
When she finds out you may no longer be friends. She put boundaries for her friendship and you violated them because you were horny
Nice creative writing piece
Loosing a parent is so hot, I’m sorry for your loss. As everyone has already said, this guy needs to be you ex. Being a supportive loving partner while you are grieving, is expected and normal. What he did shows you exactly his response for every future situation where he isn’t the main character.
The last time OP was out with this group they ended up in a fight, too. This can be a dangerous relationship to have with coworkers.
I got two paragraphs in and said “therapy” out loud.
They can have deep and meaningful conversations about highly personal stuff but can’t talk about why there was no physicality between them? I don’t buy that.