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Birth Date: 1996-04-04
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Date: February 9, 2023
There is absolutely nothing you could tell me about your situation that would make me believe that a 20 year old woman dropping out of college to run away with a 35 year old man she's known for 6 months and hasn't even slept with, and immediately popping out babies with zero safety net and no plan other than to be wholly dependant on said man is anything about a ridiculous, dangerous, irresponsible and all around completely ill-fated idea.
I personally think that they deserve their money back, as they haven't done any work and have the audacity to undervalue the amount of effort you've put into this. I would take their money out and give it to them, but I'm also not an expert on stocks so I don't know if that would impact your growth. They sound extremely greedy and unappreciative.
A reaction that would make him look like sh1t in front of his gf.
They set bait and OP fell for it hook, line and sinker.
Either way, OP showed his character to his ex GF and her dad pretty well there. Pretty good sign of weakness on OP's part.
Hahahaha. So funny to humilate and belittle your partner in front of everyone. “still only” and “don't get ahead of yourself”. But he is the great overarchiecher who got on the top with nude work on sweat, it didn’t fall in his lap like it did to you, hahaha. You must know your play, honey, hahaha.
Your bf seems to sees his worth to the money he earns. He hated it that you let it sound as if you “are more worth”, so he must humilate you infront of everybody for his ego. He didn't care about you or your feelings. It is just about his ego. How would he look in fron of his co-workers if his partner earns more?
You are just together since 10 months and you already see that he would sacrife your dignity if he could end up look could in front of his co-workers. He look down on your archievements. But if you would earn more, he would resent you.
Do you really want to deal with his views and his importance on money for the rest of you life? How long till he snub your friends or family with this behaviour because he needs to velittle their archievements?
So then thing is OP has said that her fiancé has basically told her that they will be moving the parents in, without discussion. So ngl if my husband just one day sprung this on me- “hey we’re moving my mom and dad in”, no discussion, nothing, and then attributed this to “being part of his culture”, I would have a problem too. I’d be pretty damn mad.
The thing is in no one’s culture is there a tradition of not consulting and communicating with your spouse before making a HUGE decision. And when that was happening back in the 1950’s, laws were made and changed to protect those who were exploited (namely women) from those kind of attitudes.
I actually think the fact that her fiancé basically told her hey this is how it is going to be and then deliberately manipulated her with “culture”, is a huge red flag. HUGE. Because as it turns out, what he told her about culture was totally wrong- parents don’t move in, the children move in. Yeah, I would be pretty hostile after that.
You may not be Indian but I am. If I sat down to tell you how many times daughter-in-laws were made into servants, abused, beaten and even murdered HERE in NORTH AMERICA, you’d be aghast and appalled. And it ALWAYS starts the same way- “there are gonna be no arguments, I’m moving mom and dad in.” Literally just read about a Sikh woman who hung herself because she couldn’t take the abuse from her in-laws anymore, somewhere in America.
I think it’s a big leap to say op’s in-laws will be like this, but the fact that op’s fiancé Basically told her hey I’m moving them in, and it’s our culture, is really really wrong, and I don’t think this sub gets that.
So he refuses to go on dates with you but then plans a painful one that implies he doesn’t like your lady bits as they are, to enhance his sexual experience? Then he turns it around and tries to guilt you by saying he doesn’t feel like he’s enough?
What kind of garbage is this? Maybe he isn’t enough.
It seems like your biggest issue here is that it is happening on Valentine’s Day.
If this wouldn’t bother you on any other day, don’t let it bother you today.
For someone people Valentine’s Day just isn’t a big deal, and it is just another day. Don’t read too much into it.
And $2000 richer
Why thank you so much, as much as i love music, i really love that compliment! You're welcome, i wish y'all the most happiness you can stand! Happy Valentine's!
Be honest and kind. Nothing will ever beat that. Also, obsession is a pretty ugly word, unless you are looking for a sick stalker.
Do you have any names for those apps? Concerned my ex maybe doing exactly that with my phone and need to check. ?
You were raped. Please google your local sexual assault centre & ask for the link/phone # for males who have been sexually assaulted. Talk to one of the therapists there.
I think I did this to be complete disgusted by him, I already lost my emotional attachment to him and it's been a painful process. I have broken up with him and now I'm waiting for him to leave the house, which I owe. It took a long journey for me to finally realize the person you wanted to share your life with, doesn't love you or respect you. And it's taken a toll on me, I'm working it out within myself, I just wanted to let it out. I feel insane and numb and defeated.
Your already mentally fragile girlfriend moved to an entirely different country to be with you and is now depending on you alone for emotional support. That's not necessarily your fault, neither is it hers, but I don't see how either of you is particularly suprised…
I'm sorry, but there's nothing yoiu can realistically do that you haven't already done. Any progress depends on your girlfriend and her willingness to seek help and get better, and apparently she isn't willing to do that.
She did consult a psychologist once or twice but she never did more than one session, because as soon as people reflect that the solution could include a shift in her perspective, she feels that she is misunderstood.
If your girlfriend doesn't want to confront her issues and change her perspective so that she is able to participate in the world around her, she frankly doesn't stand a chance, and she definitely doesn't stand a chance in a new country where she has to be aware of cultural differences on top of that.
You clearly love your girlfriend, and you ultimately want to believe that she is doing the best she can do, but if she is always the root of every evil that happens to her, then I frankly think you need to revaluate your stance a little.
It's simply not realistic that every single woman out there is somehow magically out to get her or that every problem she encounters can be boiled down to cultural differences. If she wants to get along with people more, she is likely going to have to make more of an effort, and that especially goes for when she wants to get along with people across countries and cultures. I feel like you're frankly only kidding yourselves if this wasn't already clear to both of you from the very beginning.
My dad was an electrician. His schedule had him home early. I would say my sahm did the majority of cooking, but my dad helped in some way most nights if he didn’t make the full meal. Like peeling vegetables or was the one cooking stuff on the grill. So yea, utter bs.
Plus I have chronic pain and still manage to feed myself somehow,
It can be true. Or it can also be fake.
The sender can send it stir up trouble for their own benefit. Or they also may have chosen stay anonymous because they don’t want to face the backlash for telling you.
Poke around and see if your bf is/isn’t cheating on you.
Lol.
He is taking a break to post. Then the boning of his sister will continue ???
I think y’all are overreacting and hyper focused on the “step sibling” bit, they’re not even married they’re just dating
There is plenty of dick and pussy out there in the world for those who are grieving and lonely.
Have you considered the possibility that they might actually like each other and are not using each other for sex and distraction? Maybe you should tone down your porn consumption.
preciate the comment but i have no interest in dating anyone for a while, i date to marry i don’t want to fuck around with people
Anyone else think that a guy with such a low amount of empathy probably became a veterinarian so that he can cut on animals without repercussions?
then go on your own .. why is this a whole reddit post ..
you don’t owe anyone anything . if you don’t want to take her don’t . plain and simple . things are as easy or as complicated as you make them .
It's both honestly
Thank you for your reply. He is aware of my BPD, I made it known pretty early on in our relationship. It is difficult to distinguish sometimes between whether I’m overreacting or if what I’m asking for is reasonable.
It wasn’t easy to adjust to his texting habits in the beginning, but we talked about it and compromised when it came to sending goodnight/good morning messages as he wouldn’t use to. When I told him it bothered me that he wouldn’t say goodnight, he seemed more than happy to take it onboard and now says it every night, which is why I think I was quite shocked when he got defensive about me asking him this. It instantly made me wonder if I was asking too much, but I really don’t think I am.
Are we talking clutter or disgusting dirty dishes? Honestly, for some people— especially with untreated ADHD— clutter and messes can be overwhelming. While it may be very tight financially, hiring a cleaning person every other week can be a life saver.
? I so much hate the word. Thanks bro ?
Oh we all are close so they are aware. We are all over 18.
Thank you for your help. I have tried to talk to him about it but seem to struggle with being direct due to not wanting to hurt his feelings. All I want for him is to have a fulfilling life and it saddens me to see how he doesn’t understand that his parents are having to financially support him and how he has options but doesn’t really see that he does. I spoke to him about my concern for med school and he believes he is capable of having a full time job while cooking, cleaning, etc while I study 12+ hours a day, however his actions now say otherwise. I appreciate you taking the time out of your day to help me gain clarity on this.
I would’ve ditched both of them
Don't let him keep using you. Why care if your ex doesn't forgive you? Just make sure you get court ordered support from him. You got this. Good luck
You're going to have to be patient with her. Remind her that your trying. It might help to have a conversation like “I know you're hurt still, I am trying to atone for what I have done.” Realize it will take a lot of time before she trusts you to go out again. And when you do go out, you need to understand that while she is sitting at home, alone, her anxiety is going to run rampant, so check in with her.
I don't know if you are religious or not, I'm not here to judge either way, but the bible says you have to atone for your sins, what you've done hurt more than you realize, and you are going to have to make it up to her. This is not a “Sorry, I wont do it again” moment.
You might have to take your relationship back to square one and remind each other why you're married in the first place. I imagine she's feeling insecure, and I imagine you have your own reasons for doing what you did. You both have some room to grow, so grow together.
As someone who has been through this hell, I will tell you, we are far better now as a couple than we were prior to the infidelity.
So break up? I’m conservative, my girlfriend/soon to be fiancé has some conservative and some liberal views. We would not be able to make it work if our views were radically different, because it represents a core difference in our values.
It sounds like he’s ok dating you and isn’t trying to get you to come to his side of the political aisle, so this choice is purely in your hands. However from what I’m reading, it sounds like you two simply view the world differently.
Let me tell you something, and please, if you listen to nothing else listen to this: he will NOT change. He won’t magically realize you were right and shift his views, there won’t be a scenario where he will agree with you on the issues he feels strongly about. Trying to change him will just result in fights and an eventual breakup. He realizes this and that’s why he isn’t attempting to shift your views, but if you stay with him you need to understand that you won’t change his views either. Decide if you can accept it or you can’t.
“Riley. You met a guy and dated him for only 8 months before getting engaged. You then married him before living together. Its important to live with someone before a big commitment bc that's when you truly get to know them. Your marriage is not normal, and you have zero ground to stand on when it comes to giving anyone relationship advice. Stop, or I'll remove you from my life. “
Easy.
She for the streets bro
Doesn’t really seem like a reason not to invite you. Him going to a concert on your bday doesn’t seem like an issue at all, you can celebrate your bday anytime & the concert is on a specific night. The not inviting you part is weird though