How do I (24F) politely tell our bf (31M) that he is lost his mind?

So I, (24F), found out this last Friday that my work is moving its major operations to a different city and it is shutting down the local office. We were all laid off.

Because I' ve already been bored, I' ve already been deep cleaning the house and doing all the dishes, and so forth Now, look here. My bf(31m) comes home today in my opinion cooking dinner. There' h a spill in some unique corner of the kitchen through when I was cleaning which i didn' t see. This individual comes up to me, tosses the particular towel at my feet, and informs me of the spill so I can go clean this.

After I asked in case he could clean it bc this part of the meal burns up easy, he basically responded with " you don' t work, you can do this. " (Paraphrased)

At this point, I' m fucking seething, ladies and gentleman. While, I did drop my job, I have passive income due to investments and also obtain income from lucrative interests (which I also sold today, on top of deep cleaning the whole house including mopping plus external windows. )

So , I' m still paying half of literally most expenses, even if we don' t split them evenly. And, without my primary income, this is a good, 70% of my income.

Therefore now I' m outdoors, because I' m pissed and the only thing I could think to say is that he' s lost his fucking mind and he can go back to their mother' s house. Any advise on how to express our disdain without starting a fight?

TlDr: I spend 70% of my income on half of all costs even after losing my work, however my bf right now " expects" me to carry out all the cooking and cleaning on top of that. How should I politely to inform him to fuck off.

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