My friend of 10 years is turning 30 in a few days but hasn' t invited me. Some of her buddies don' t like me since I' m mildly autistic and can be blunt and straight forward, which they don' big t like. She says we are able to hang out 1 on one instead to celebrate the girl, but that she desires a birthday party to movement without any issues.
I' mirielle wondering if this is a legitimate concern to not invite someone due to this. I know I can be low key kind of weird. I' m high working and most ppl don' big t know I' m autistic, they just notice that I could be quite shy, avoid eye contact and talk about details I' m only interested in, or be kind of straight-forward and straight forward. I' meters an engineer so I speculate ppl expect me to be like this due to that. I' m not diagnosed yet and the autist thing is a recent realization, but I' ve had subtle difficulties with socialization as long as I remember, I just didn' t know what it was for a long time.
Tldr: My friend (F29) doesn' t want to invite me to her 30 birthday party, because I' m (F26) mildly autistic and may annoy her friends with my bluntness. Is this a legitimate concern?
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