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Date: February 11, 2023
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Dude. No. You read somewhere that risks DOUBLE at 35 for pregnancy and you're running with it. This is such fearmongering.
The risks go from (I'm not looking it up again, these aren't exact numbers) 1 in 10,000 to 1 in 5,000.
Fertility doesn't actually go down drastically at 35, either. I got pregnant twice over this summer, at 35. Once accidentally due to covid messing my cycle and I miscarried. And then immediately after the miscarriage, my eggo was preggo again. And now I'm 36, 30 weeks along with a healthy fetus, healthy body, everything going well.
AMA pregnancy just means extra monitoring, extra testing. He's a doctor, she'll be getting quality care. Most AMA pregnancies are fine. Risks go up every year and they go up drastically but even at 45, the risk of Down Syndrome for instance is something like 1 in 150.
You didn’t go there… he did… he’s sexualizing sleep. He’s sexualizing support and comfort and sibling relationships… his mind went there in an angry and big way… he literally forced you there… so it’s ok to ask WHY THE FUCK DID YOU BRING ME HERE?
Dude you are in such denial it’s making you look like a fool.
She’s not wearing a ring, she’s lying about he whereabouts, and avoiding you… do you have ANY ounce of self respect?
She’s at the very least WANTING to cheat.
Grow a backbone and finish this
I'm really sorry you're dealing with this. I've been in similar situations and no matter their intent, it's so unhelpful/harmful to recovery. Hell, even years into recovery, I can't stand people commenting on my food, especially people I online with.
It can feel awkward, but I found it best to address it directly. Try to be as calm as possible (I know it's tough when this has been building up for a while) and say some variation of “Hey (housemate), you know that this is something I struggle with. The comments are really not helping. Please stop.” Or — to make it more of an “I” statement — “I find these comments hurtful and it's hindering my recovery. Please stop.”
When I had a housemate who continued to do this, the first couple of times I brought up that we'd talked about it before and repeated the request. When it still continued, I asked point-blank what they were trying to accomplish with their comments. If they come back with some kind of “you should learn to take a joke!” etc., point out that it's not a joke when only one person is laughing. I'd even go so far as to ask if they think you relapsing with a potentially fatal disease is funny to them, but tbf I'm just getting a little worked up on your behalf. This is not an unreasonable request for you to make, FFS.
Assuming the best — that the housemate is clueless — that should shut them up. If they're malicious, then it's time to look into a new housing situation. Recovery is naked enough without someone actively working against you.
Also, the coke zero comment… wtf? It has no calories. It's not “going” anywhere. Even calories aren't “going to your stomach,” they're getting turned into energy that you need to survive.
I wish you luck with your recovery. It can be awful, but worth it
Your girlfriend deserves better than you. I am sure she's had bigger d!cks than yours and prefers them- especially since yours has likely shrunken physically as it protrudes more into your personality.
“Hey friend, I like Amy but I miss seeing you one-on-one. I miss hanging out with just the guys, and it's tough to accommodate someone who doesn't drive, isn't willing to Uber, and always leaves early. It's not that we don't ever want her there, it's that we miss you. It's very hot to hang out with just friends when it feels like a couple thing every time.”
If Amy's presence derails the plan, don't change the plan. It's a shame if she can't make it, but stop accommodating someone who won't take an Uber and can't get a ride. Does Amy have any other friends?
your idea that your kid not having your name will mean a judge will assume you're not involved is absolute horseshit.
I'm not even trying to be rude, but are you a lawyer? My lawyer, who naturally deals with this stuff on a day to day basis gave me advice on this. I came here because I really don't want to have to go through court for this as there will most likely be future court cases that will need a lot more attention.
your idea that your kid not having your name will mean a judge will assume you're not involved is absolute horseshit.
I'm not even trying to be rude, but are you a lawyer? My lawyer, who naturally deals with this stuff on a day to day basis gave me advice on this. I came here because I really don't want to have to go through court for this as there will most likely be future court cases that will need a lot more attention.
Yea two wrongs don’t make a right, everyone knows that.
You shouldn’t there was no way to know, but now you do and now it’s about what comes next.
Read the update
Why is her sister sending you all these snaps and why are they affecting you so much? If this is crossing your boundaries then you need to communicate that to her.
Can you get back into your dream school? You need to prioritize yourself and your goals. I even if that means moving etc, now is the time for you to develop yourself vs be the maid in a very quick marriage.
Get back into your dream school, find something to look forward too. If your husband's stress causes him to threaten divorce that's not someone you want to go through very hot times with
Move on, she has the right to wait for sex and you have the right to be with someone who wants to be sexually active.
Move on, she has the right to wait for sex and you have the right to be with someone who wants to be sexually active.
Move on, she has the right to wait for sex and you have the right to be with someone who wants to be sexually active.
Are you Jewish by any chance? Because not having skirts above the knee sounds like an issue with how observant you want to be. If he’s more observant than you, you should find someone who’s at the same religiosity level as you, otherwise it won’t work out.
Omg lol there’s a 5 year age gap read the post. He’s 23, she’s 28. He was 8, she was 13. Why is this any different that two friends who grew up together & thought of each other as family for a time but developed feelings as adults??