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Date: February 15, 2023
Yeah, no. He thinks you should show you love him by doing all the cooking. It's only one's love language if the person doing the cooking likes to cook to show their love, not the other way around. If cooking is his love language, then he'd cook for you.
Basically, it just sounds like excuses to make you agree that you should do all the cooking. He wants someone to do all the cooking and that someone is you because your his gf.
What should you do? Figure out if this is what you want in a relationship because this is the type of relationship he's offering. If it's not, then break it off and find someone who will be in the type of relationship you want to be in and this includes agreeing or at least negotiating on household chores, finances, children, worrying full or part time or staying at home, pets, etc.
You say you’ve been with him for a long time…..how long is “a long time”?
Honestly kids like to push their limits at that age. It sucks but you really have to reinforce boundaries otherwise it gets worse. He pees on the floor? Fine, put gloves on him and make him clean it up. He pours stuff on the floor? Fine, he cleans it up. And DO NOT cave in, otherwise he knows he can get away with it. Just tell him he mad a wrong choice and now he needs to fix it. It’s not your job to fix his wrong choice. And follow through.
My daughter was an unbelievable butthead at that age. I used to cry myself to sleep because all I did all day was hold the line. But guess what? She figured out she wasn’t gonna get away with it and eventually gave up. She’s such a well mannered well behaved kid now that no one would ever dream she was an AWFUL toddler
Just a question…do you ever take time out for yourself? Meditating, yoga, reading etc.
I'm a guy and fell into that rut. The same thing happened to me. She now doesn't seem to like what I cook. I cook better than she does. She likes to eat junk. I also clean the house. Clean too well apparently. It's happened with two partners and it needs to change. I resent it.
I don't know what the answer is but I'm sure we are not the only ones.
Troll post.
Didn't think about it from that perspective with friends or a therapist. Thank you for pointing those options out and why they might work better
How fresh was his last relationship that ended with him being betrayed? I’m divorcing my STBXW and infidelity was the major cause. You get legitimate PTSD from that experience, and you come to realize how common a plot device it is in shows movies and songs. He could likely use some therapy.
no one on here can tell you how to feel..Some people dont like having the carrot dangled in front of them endlessly, at some point you have to deliver the goods…ask Charlie Brown, he really wants to kick that football and Lucy keeps making empty promises, then pulling the football away. Don't be a Lucy
So what? Is he in a position to put her in Jail? Does he have the ability to make the law?
Sounds like you have become more mature than them. Leave them behind, you are better than them. You become like the people that you spend time with, even if you don’t mean to.
I would give it more time. It’s only been 2 weeks. However, I do think that apologizing when you fucked up can be really powerful in healing and allowing yourself to move forward. The fact that you realize it and are genuinely sorry isn’t something you should just ignore.
I have reached out to people I felt that I hurt years later because it weighed on my mind. It felt really good to hear that they were really appreciative of my apology. Humans want to forgive and I think avoiding the feeling of wanting to make things right is not a great way to deal with it.
I agree with people saying you shouldn’t send the letter. I say wait a few months and send a simple text that allows for closure on both ends.
We have no reason to suspect that OP’s father was such a career criminal or person with lacking morals that he must “change his ways” in a serious way in the first place. Yes, 11 years is a long time so it was a serious offense. But depending on the nature of the crime, we have no reason to believe that it would lead to his children being in danger, even financially, in the first place. Personal vs corporate fraud, the motive of the crime, whatever.
If it’s not danger but just a lack of morality that he might possess, I think I could care less when the wife is allowing her kids to see a family of people we know are probably worse.
Im so sorry you went through that, people are so messed up ? I don’t understand… how can the word “love” even come out of someone’s mouth, but they act like they absolutely hate you and just want to destroy you. SMH, I hate people
Forgive me for being insensitive but if their family is like that then they’re a bad family. You’re always supposed to have your families back. If I was in that situation and told my family that this girl basically destroyed my high school years they would tell her to get out of their house.
What about Gustavo? Was he invited?
Give him a warning first perhaps before you follow through. Then it's on him to do his job then or have his activity ruined (like he ruins yours). If he's given every chance to avoid the consequence he doesn't like and chooses not to then it's on him, not you.
I think as long as you're worried about being mean he'll take advantage. Find the point that's assertive and stand up for yourself from there. It's obviously further along than you're at now.
Note: We’ve talked about this many times. I’ve opened up about my feelings and how I felt that he was being excessive and disrespectful. How I feel resentment towards him. But it does not seem like much is going to change.
She's nuts if she ever steps in the same building as him, unless it's a court house to sign divorce papers.
Understood. I'll do it. Btw she knows it's casual and she's not committed too, we both just wanted to test the waters, it's only been two weeks. But how to not be shallow? (And please no need to be so demeaning, I'm just trying to get help)
I don’t really understand why this would hurt your relationship to share?
Imagine this happened to a friend of yours. What would you tell them?
Ok how should I go about starting the conversation
It’s like you just explained my ex husband wow
The grass is greener on the other side”
I think any way you slice it, spending literally the rest of your life with someone sounds scary and not only that, of course there could be times you’re bored of it as it’s the same thing for the rest of your life. So no matter who you are with forever things will have to be spiced up and changed every once in a while and it won’t always be exciting, it’s just not possible
However, if the idea of spending the rest of your life with a specific person makes you feel unhappy or scared instead of excited there may be something to it. It is quite possible that’s she’s perfect on paper but not the right person for you. But only you can know that deep down not any of us
I would make a list and write all of the things you want in your life long partner. And no not looks, I mean personality, how they treat you, their life values and goals, their love language, what kind of future they want, what they do that excited you, sex drive.. everything. If she doesn’t match this list or you can’t see yourself happy with her after the good looks wear off with age, in 5 years or 30 years, you don’t want the same things in life, her personality and interests won’t excite you for the long haul? Than she’s not the one for you
It is possible that you’re too young or haven’t dated enough to truly know what you want, in fact there’s a possibility that you don’t even know or understand your true self, making it hot to know what you want in love
Only you can decide none of us here.
You have one life to on-line.. how do you want to spend the rest of it?
OP, assuming a lot here but for me, the important question is: 'Will you be with your ex again if you find out she's single?' or 'Will you cheat on me with your ex if you find out she's single?'
Is there any indication he has been in contact with her recently? Or her him? His reaction to your question seems to be a little extreme. I understand that finding out a partner has cheated is a painful process but it still seems a little extreme to react to you as he did.
As far as I'm concerned, I think every couple of days IS speaking about her all the time and he clearly hasn't come to terms with her cheating or their relationship ending. Him continually speaking about her, and his reaction to your innocent question, shows she is never out of his mind and that he still has feelings for her.
Personally, I'd think about postponing my wedding. At the very least, you need to have a long, serious, adult chat to him about how he views his ex and his obsession with her. If not, there will always be a third, and unwelcome, person in your relationship with him.
The fact that you mention you’re a very closed guy seems to imply that you don’t really share your own feelings/struggles/negative thoughts with her.
As someone who deals with severe depression, when you try to talk to “normal” people about it, you often start feeling like you’re a crazy person just burdening them. But, when someone opens up about their own struggles with mental health or daily frustrations or whatever, it makes the situation feel safer to also be honest about what you’re dealing with yourself.
Being there for someone means more than just being there physically. It sounds like what she needs is emotional support – someone safe to talk to and express her feelings. (And disclaimer – talking to a professional is absolutely a great idea.)
The other thing men tend to do in relationships is just look for fixes to problems…and many times, women just need someone to listen and commiserate with their problems. When I talk to someone about my bouts of depression, and they just start listing ways to fix it (“have you tried being thankful/taking walks/idk like try NOT being sad?”) It’s an easy way to know who I won’t be vulnerable with anymore. Mental health isn’t a problem you just fix with the right combination of actions. Sure, there are things you can do to make life better like medication/therapy/exercise/etc…but some days just suck so bad and you need someone who will come pet your hair or let you cry in front of them without having to explain why.
You're a fucking saint but…that's a little much.
Maybe FWB woman was at home, showed up at the house because she thought OP texted her, and when she saw the crazy happen, she went to the diner because she thought OP might need an actual friend.
Maybe FWB woman works at the diner.
In any case, nothing has been proven. OP cut off contact with FWB woman before even entering a relationship with crazy gf. They had just started flirting and OP saw potential.
No cheating.
You should stop fucking other people. Unprotected sex, really? Are you stupid?
This is why engagement rings shouldn’t be surprises…. It’s a common problem.
Assuming all the stones are ethically sourced…
It’ll be a very hot talk. But sit him down, get him to go through his decision-making tree with you: what did HE want for your ring? Internalize that before you do anything: if you’re going to open a conversation on what to exchange his choice for, understand his values.
As kindly and sincerely as you can, praise those choices.
Re-direct when he went wrong: “Instead of this cluster, I would have gone with X.” See if you can work around toward an exchange.
Put some distance between you and your friend. He is in a relationship. Respect that boundary. Go back to friends o lt behavior. Go start hanging out with other friends and broaden your circle.
Her comparing you to an ex in this situation a big red flag. I would set a boundary with her. You can’t be in a relationship without open and honest communication. If that isn’t something she is capable or willing to engage in you need to end things.
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no idea why, i will talk about it later with her
Bruh if you're with a man and have to compete constantly with another woman then move on, this is not worth at all. There's plenty of men out there that would treat you like a goddess only having his eyes on you, he's not one of those men