You can’t make him go away. First you need to understand that.
Second, you need to protect yourself. Speak with your work and landlord so they have a heads up someone might try to make you look bad, reach out to family (assuming they aren’t also abusive), consider moving back home (same thing), get a new number on a new phone (keep the old but put on do not disturb so you still get what he sends; DO NOT LOOK AT IT). Lock down or even delete all social media.
Third: take your old phone with all his insane ramblings with you to the police. Get a restraining order. Get a taser and or mace depending on what is legal in your area. Get self defense classes. If you cannot get a restraining order, leave. Just straight up move to a new city or back home. As long as he is trying to contact you, and probably for a while after that always have your location traceable by someone you trust (Life360 is used in my family but I haven’t don’t a lot of research into it). Utilize the resources I’m positive someone will share (shelters, legal aid, therapy, etc)
Anyone else think that a guy with such a low amount of empathy probably became a veterinarian so that he can cut on animals without repercussions?
It is rape and if he doesn't think so have him explain the situation to the police or his mum
You can’t make him go away. First you need to understand that.
Second, you need to protect yourself. Speak with your work and landlord so they have a heads up someone might try to make you look bad, reach out to family (assuming they aren’t also abusive), consider moving back home (same thing), get a new number on a new phone (keep the old but put on do not disturb so you still get what he sends; DO NOT LOOK AT IT). Lock down or even delete all social media.
Third: take your old phone with all his insane ramblings with you to the police. Get a restraining order. Get a taser and or mace depending on what is legal in your area. Get self defense classes. If you cannot get a restraining order, leave. Just straight up move to a new city or back home. As long as he is trying to contact you, and probably for a while after that always have your location traceable by someone you trust (Life360 is used in my family but I haven’t don’t a lot of research into it). Utilize the resources I’m positive someone will share (shelters, legal aid, therapy, etc)