I do know what you mean. And that's the whole idea about sitting him down and telling him this. That improvements are not going to be a “do for a week and settle back to normal” but it's going to be an ongoing process but in the meantime, you will be working on backing out of the relationship.
You can tell him that you are open to change your mind but that it's his actions that have to be the instigator for that mind change, and not stupid shit like love bombing, or surface only changes. Give him a set period of time – say the end of your lease if you are renting.
And if he falls into the mopy “there is no point in trying as you have made up your mind” then you know that there is no longer any point.
There comes a time when setting yourself on fire to keep them warm just leaves you burnt, and them still cold.
At the next game. I’m front of “her.”
I always try to see the good in people. I’m stupid.
I do know what you mean. And that's the whole idea about sitting him down and telling him this. That improvements are not going to be a “do for a week and settle back to normal” but it's going to be an ongoing process but in the meantime, you will be working on backing out of the relationship.
You can tell him that you are open to change your mind but that it's his actions that have to be the instigator for that mind change, and not stupid shit like love bombing, or surface only changes. Give him a set period of time – say the end of your lease if you are renting.
And if he falls into the mopy “there is no point in trying as you have made up your mind” then you know that there is no longer any point.
There comes a time when setting yourself on fire to keep them warm just leaves you burnt, and them still cold.