It is tradition. My older brother got the same treatment. Should the tradition morph? Maybe. That tradition was born of the idea that even if you were able to give healthy birth to one child, you likely wouldn't have more than two. Both my sister and I kept our maiden names because our blood line would have ended. Then my brother finally had a boy. So it continues!!!
As someone who was married and had a 10 year long relationships I want to say, why hurry? You are in an amazing time of your relationship. Everything is new and exciting and you know you want each other. I would want to enjoy that faze as long as possible because it is just amazing and care free.
Solve both problems and get a bidet. No TP and no open shit paper.
It is tradition. My older brother got the same treatment. Should the tradition morph? Maybe. That tradition was born of the idea that even if you were able to give healthy birth to one child, you likely wouldn't have more than two. Both my sister and I kept our maiden names because our blood line would have ended. Then my brother finally had a boy. So it continues!!!
As someone who was married and had a 10 year long relationships I want to say, why hurry? You are in an amazing time of your relationship. Everything is new and exciting and you know you want each other. I would want to enjoy that faze as long as possible because it is just amazing and care free.
But you do whatever makes you happy!