I love my fiancé, but I also love my best friend (in a non-sexual way). Best friend and I grew up together and he's like a brother I never had. From the beginning, the two of them got along quite well and became friends to the point of my fiancé asking my best friend to be his best man at our wedding. I don't know what happened between them, what caused the altercation, or who started it…They're not on speaking terms, but neither wants to tell me what happened. Fiancé won't talk to me about it, but he asked me to promise not to talk to my friend ever again. I can't promise him that without at least knowing what happened, which he's not happy about, but still won't tell me what happened. My best friend is also keeping his mouth shut. All he texted me was that he loves me, but that he needs to move on from our friendship and asked not to contact him ever again. I'm shattered. He's one of the most important people in my life and I don't want to lose him. What do I do?
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