We were ldr and Ididnt want to get into a potential relationship with a serial killer or something and I did the check out the first week or 2 we were talking just as peace of mind it's not abnormal in ldrs to run a check.
But I know we need a talk thats why I posted I want it to go well and not make him feel cornered or like ive alrwDy decide Ihave all the answers to what is going on. I do go to therapy and I have been working on my own emotions but I care how I come across because I want to salvage pur relationship if possible. I don't want this to turn out being something different than what everybody seems to think and me being harsh about it and him never being able to feel comfortable with me again.
The thing is, he wasn't embarrassed to tell you not to flush it and put it in the trash so I wouldn't be too worried about discussing your point of view. I wouldn't be mean about it but I would bring up how it is unnecessary and unnecessary it is. Bagging it is still gross and absolutely unnecessary. The solution is so easy…..FLUSH IT! If he isn't willing to do that, you will have to decide if it's something you can online with.
I could see it if there were plumbing or septic system issues but since there aren't, this is just unnecessarily gross and unsanitary. He's a grown man so there's no reason to keep doing this.
buy a babycarrier. find a trainer for it.
with baby always on you, you will have more mobility, and baby will be less stressed.
We were ldr and Ididnt want to get into a potential relationship with a serial killer or something and I did the check out the first week or 2 we were talking just as peace of mind it's not abnormal in ldrs to run a check.
But I know we need a talk thats why I posted I want it to go well and not make him feel cornered or like ive alrwDy decide Ihave all the answers to what is going on. I do go to therapy and I have been working on my own emotions but I care how I come across because I want to salvage pur relationship if possible. I don't want this to turn out being something different than what everybody seems to think and me being harsh about it and him never being able to feel comfortable with me again.
The thing is, he wasn't embarrassed to tell you not to flush it and put it in the trash so I wouldn't be too worried about discussing your point of view. I wouldn't be mean about it but I would bring up how it is unnecessary and unnecessary it is. Bagging it is still gross and absolutely unnecessary. The solution is so easy…..FLUSH IT! If he isn't willing to do that, you will have to decide if it's something you can online with.
I could see it if there were plumbing or septic system issues but since there aren't, this is just unnecessarily gross and unsanitary. He's a grown man so there's no reason to keep doing this.