Pretty poor expectation that your boyfriend should jump in to save you from essentially nothing. Of course, not nothing nothing, something obviously happened but as long as you guys got away from there would have been the main thing after the first SA.
It appears that you wanted him to jump in and defend you honour? Doing that would have probably got him bashed…so there is that side of the coin
While I don't agree with the lie, honestly this seems like a major overreaction in the first place and the lie was a response to the fact that he knew you well enough to realize you would make a big deal over this if he told you the truth. The point was the chat because you admit you were bothered by it before he lied.
Who cares if he has a text thread buried at the bottom of an app? Why did you turn this into an issue in the first place? It's not like he is still texting her. You're going to exhaust yourself if you police little things like this. In future if you have an issue, communicate directly that something bugs you instead of trying to trap him. You'll save both of you a lot of headaches.
As the saying goes “fuck around and find out” so buckle up for the shit show you deserve to experience
Pretty poor expectation that your boyfriend should jump in to save you from essentially nothing. Of course, not nothing nothing, something obviously happened but as long as you guys got away from there would have been the main thing after the first SA.
It appears that you wanted him to jump in and defend you honour? Doing that would have probably got him bashed…so there is that side of the coin
While I don't agree with the lie, honestly this seems like a major overreaction in the first place and the lie was a response to the fact that he knew you well enough to realize you would make a big deal over this if he told you the truth. The point was the chat because you admit you were bothered by it before he lied.
Who cares if he has a text thread buried at the bottom of an app? Why did you turn this into an issue in the first place? It's not like he is still texting her. You're going to exhaust yourself if you police little things like this. In future if you have an issue, communicate directly that something bugs you instead of trying to trap him. You'll save both of you a lot of headaches.