The majority of the time, he would choose to hangout with me but if I wasn’t free then he would hangout with her. There was only one time that she texted him to get food and then when I asked him the same day he said he already made plans with her
Yes make it a deal breaker. If he refuses break up with him and tell him you won't respond to him unless he tells his family. It seems like he isn't treating your relationship seriously, but as some kind of joke.
Nothing wrong with all three having a Convo. See if he's saying that soulmate stuff in front of the wife. If you really did find your soulmate but we're married to somebody else wouldn't you be up front about it so you didn't lose your soulmate?
Wait until he hears about what a gynecologist does.
The majority of the time, he would choose to hangout with me but if I wasn’t free then he would hangout with her. There was only one time that she texted him to get food and then when I asked him the same day he said he already made plans with her
Yes make it a deal breaker. If he refuses break up with him and tell him you won't respond to him unless he tells his family. It seems like he isn't treating your relationship seriously, but as some kind of joke.
Nothing wrong with all three having a Convo. See if he's saying that soulmate stuff in front of the wife. If you really did find your soulmate but we're married to somebody else wouldn't you be up front about it so you didn't lose your soulmate?
Do you need to go overseas?
There are lot of travel options if you are willing to stay on the continent. Make a road trip, travel on train…
When you are in a relationship you need to make sacrifices.