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Date: October 4, 2022
not interested
I would say the first two with other women are. Seems weird to me you wouldn't mention your girlfriend right off the bat with. My girlfriend likes this too or me and my girlfriend went on holiday somewhere. Seems a bit of a douchebag move to also be a wing man like that where he could have declined both the wingmen situation and the Tinder one. Still using it, is shady and if you're his priority, he needs to listen to your feelings and how much those things hurt you.
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If you're not attracted to your partner you are wasting time for both of you. He likely sensed your lack of interest and that might have been why he needed validation from other women.
Don't hold yourself back from finding real love. Many people have health issues. Heck, I have MS and had no trouble dating amazing guys and I'm currently in my dream relationship because didn't settle. I settled for most of my 20s and early 30s and regretted it. I'm really glad it worked out in the end.
You are the master of your destiny. Change is scary but wasted time is much worse.
How about skipping the 23 & me and taking a DNA TEST. This way, he'll know, and he'll feel like an idiot for doubting your loyalty. Unless you are worried, he might be right. The real questions are, why does he feel like this outside of the blonde hair blue eyes? Have you cheated in the past?
would you really feel better if he searched out jerk off material that looked just like you. that would freak me out. what he looks at live has nothing to do with you.
He doesn’t have trauma from ANYTHING. He’s using that as an excuse to criticize you
so for this unborn child that could be his or not. He needs to establish paternity, he can do this with a court order after the baby is born when she puts his name on the birth certificate which in some states makes him the birth father, or he can lawyer up and get tested now to prove whether it's his or not. These are his choices to make, not yours.
So after it's decided by DNA if it's his, he will either have to give up his rights or pay child support. It doesn't matter if he was baby trapped or not. If he doesn't lawyer up he'll be paying child support regardless if it's his or not.
I couldn't find one reason why you would go through with this wedding. I would have been out of there 10 years ago. Sometimes “love” just isn't enough. You don't want to live like this the rest of your life, so get out now.
Fair points.
Thank you. I might try this.
I mean you're just chasing a superficial temporary hedonistic thrill. Why drag someone's heart into that level of shallowness?
I've been on this subreddit and r/relationships for 6 years and literally have hundreds if not thousands of hours on them last year according to Reddit stats. And this is by far one of the most disturbing posts I've ever seen. Please leave. Go to your family or a friend's place or a shelter or anything.
I feel like I'm watching someone who's about to die, and you're going to end up in a “last Reddit posts before death” video.
Different one. I’m fine not being eaten out, but I miss how invested and passionate he used to be in making me feel good.
Leave the group chats and tell your parents not to bother you about this anylonger. For years now one cares if you existed or not and now you are simply doing them the favor.
If you don't want to divorce you need to accept it or live full of bitterness and resentment.
This is a very specific corner of the internet that in general is very paranoid about cheating or having friendships. I wouldn't say it's representative of anything.
Has anyone else who's gotten it in teh US had their insurance actually pay for it? I was floored when I got a bill for $350 for one dose, and still had to go back for two more. I haven't finished my series in large part because it was so fucking expensive.
I do hate to say it, but it's possibly planned.
I mean, look at the clear manipulation, using a pregnancy to lie, get him to break up with ex, and propose to her??
It's clear he doesnt remember that night. Drugs could have been involved, or heavy manipulation. He could have been black out drunk trying to sleep, just for her to come get in bed and say they yad sex
Man you are one lucky bugger , nice work spotting her bs , today is a good day for a lotto ticket. ?
Why can’t he join you in the US while you go to school?
If your choice is really bf or med school, then 100% the answer is med school. But there are other options you aren’t listing in your post… he comes to the US on a different type of visa to be with you, or you go do a Masters degree in one of the many incredible universities in Europe/UK and then return to the US for med school
You're right, he says things when angry he later apologizes for, including the cat, but even today he says last night was my fault because I “pushed him into it by being defiant”
hey hey guys guys guys uhhhhhh im currently with the worlds shittiest person do i “love them” or nah?
OP-That man is a fucking leeching disgrace, ditch his ass and pray he never finds love again. Not trying to be overly mean but this was fairly dumb on your part to stay even after the antisocial (really just cheating) started setting in
Age gap. Younger partner with no sex boundaries and a bf that uses her like a bang maid. Shocker
Right! No wonder she feels uncomfortable about the family’s relationship with the ex he’s probably projecting energy too. Maybe the gf needs to end this relationship now rather than being heartbroken in the future. Too bad we can’t tell her not to put his name on the birth certificate. Holy Moly that was a big Mike drop. I feel for the gf and her unborn baby.
For me it’s about the celebration of the relationship that you actively choose each other instead of staying together out of comfort or habit and appreciate that this forever love is rare and that it should be appreciated and celebrated. Also from a legal perspective, we currently aren’t anything to each other legally speaking even though we share a life together.
You’re right, I could’ve proposed and even though it’s silly I have been the one initiating a lot in our relationship (from getting together, to buying a house and dog together) so I didn’t want this to be something I would initiate as well – especially since he has never seemed interested in marriage himself (doesn’t see the point and his parents were never married etc.).
I agree with you though and thank you for showing it to me, that it’s unfair to place the burden of proposing and wanting marriage on his shoulders, when it’s me who wants it. I never thought of it that way.