Tldr; he’s been over while I’m at work. I have my own business so I’m often working at my company weekdays and weekends. She’s had him over quite a bit while I’ve been gone.
I’ve often come home to them together. He helps with our kids a bit and he’s a nice guy. I just am not sure if I’m comfortable or if it’s normal to have him at our house 3/4 times a week. He almost lives with us now.
I worry about my kids bonding with him better because my kids love him and he plays with them quite a bit. They love me too and I’m likely paranoid but I feel as though they are bonding with him too much.
My wife is pregnant so I don’t want to upset her at this moment. She’s a lovely person and takes our eldest to school and looks after our daughter all day and teaches her (did the same with our eldest son). She is a lovely wife and is good to me, maybe I’m being dramatic?
I’ve tried not to be controlling like my dad used to be. I saw him being so controlling and horrible that I knew I never wanted to be like that to my wife. If I am being controlling please tell me in the comments.
If I’m not how do I tell her I want him over less?
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