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She needs counseling to unravel this or it will feel terrible forever for both of you
I'm not trying to be condescending its just when you are posting on an advice forum you should want people to know why you guys are doing certain things or dealing with problems in order to get appropriate advice.
As an example of this I'll ask you this.
On a side note, is it common to need a reason besides “that sound interesting” to want to try new things?
You posted here because you presumably want advice on something. I have yet to understand what you're really asking for advice on tbh. So why post here about relationship problems you may be having instead of lets say go to therapy together.
I don’t think it’s fair because I don’t understand how he’d be okay with me seeking attention from other females when I wouldn’t be okay with the same in return.
I can assume many things. Like he may simple be telling you the truth. He may also be lying and think its an alternative to losing you. At the end of the day only he an truly tell you why he feels its okay. Which according to what you said its because he also thinks its hot? Which brings me to the other point.
He specifically said women, and that he wouldn’t be okay with me seeing other men.
Generally this is considered biphobia/bisexual ignorance. I say generally because you haven't said what your sexuality is but whatever. The implication is he is a little ignorant to sex. In that he doesn't view sex between two women the same as sex between two men. This may ultimately end up hurting your relationship way more than you think especially if you happen to cross the boundaries you had mentioned before and I think this is the sign you need to recognize this is very likely to blow up your relationship.
We’ve been trying new things because I’ve been introducing him to new things. Because I enjoy being adventurous and he’s more mellow. This was something he brought up to me.
What you described before sounded more like a sex in the relationship issue. That does not get solved by you seeking sex outside the relationship. Which is why initially I said its like putting a bandage over a gaping hole.
I still have 0 clue really what you're asking advice on. Perhaps you'd have better guidance on poly or open relationship subs.
I think most people on the monog subs are going to say what I said and even people on the poly/open subs are going to say what I said. It sounds like you're kind of doing it for the wrong reasons but then you fall back and say no no its cause im adventurous not because I'm a little unhappy about the sex.
Thank you for your input. One did offer, however I am disinclined to drag more people into this than is necessary. The last thing I want is for this to turn into a big drama.