I think that my (29m) girlfriend (30f) is expecting for me to propose on our anniversary. How do I tactfully discourage those expectations?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year now, and our anniversary is coming up. Over the last week or two, she's been doing things like sending me marriage advice-themed social media posts, or teasing/joking about marriage, and a few other similar remarks, and it's making me think that she might be expecting me to propose on our upcoming anniversary.

For the record, we have had conversations about our future and marriage, and I am planning a proposal later this year, but I'm not quite in a position to be able to do so just yet.

Is there a way I can tactfully let her know not to expect a proposal on the anniversary, so that she's not quite as disappointed if it doesn't happen when she expects?

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