[UPDATE] I (50f) introduced a girl to my son(25m) while he was in a situationship

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/13vxuzl/i_50f_introduced_a_girl_to_my_son25m_while_he_was/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

So I wasn't prepared to give an update cause I was ready to sit back and just remain cordial. But my daughter decided to tell my husband.

For those asking, my husband is a present father but he is always away from town, which is why we are more comfortable than the average family in town. Anyways, my husband came back early and he was not happy. I was out when he came back but he threw my son out, he said that he expected real change from him before he is allowed back.

When I got back my son already packed his essential and left, my husband have to leave tomorrow, but my son is already texting me saying that it was heartless of us and so on.

I'm not sure what to do now but my husband told me to just take care of the house and he will handle this away from town. My daughter was very supportive of my husband and has been screaming at my son whenever he comes knocking.

As much as I love how much my family has tried to support me. But I feel like my family's torn apart. I never wanted to have my son kicked out and never wanted such discord in my family.

If there's a positive outcome, I will update again and soon hopefully but for now. I've prepared a small amount of cash for my son till he can find a way to stand on his own.

And I would like to thank all of you lovely people who left such nice comments. But I'm not sure if I could have fully conveyed the nuances of my situation 100% fairly.