I (19f) caught my boyfriend (26m) lying about having a child and he’s threatening to leave ME over it. is this fixable?

Hello. I'm really struggling right now. For about six months, maybe even longer, I've been suspecting that my boyfriend was previously married and has a child. Each time I've tried to talk to him about this, he got angry, called me crazy, and accused me of trying to find a way out of our relationship. He's also consistently accused me of cheating and not being trustworthy.

Yesterday, he finally admitted that he's been lying to me about his past. He was annoyed about this. He said that he feels like I invaded his privacy, and I had to really push him to apologize for it.

Then, he told me tonight that he never wants to discuss it again, and if I do, he will break up with me. I'm left with so many questions that remain unanswered. I'm feeling lost, empty, hurt, and alone. I don't want to invade his privacy, but I feel like he's betrayed me and caused me a lot of pain. I really just want to sort this out.

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