Im dating a girl and we have had sex multiple times. We have been dating for 1 month now and a few days ago she said she wants to try dating without sex just so she can see how the chemistry is between us and I complied, she seems like an honest gyal. She wants to meet other people and that’s normal. So yesterday I was FaceTiming her and found out that she still sees her ex and has sex with him. I don’t know how many times because I just didn’t care to ask, I also don’t have any feelings for her because of the length of the relationship. But this got me thinking afterwards, “maybe am I rebound?” They broke up 9 months ago and ahe told me she had sex with 10 guys during this period, including me. I mean this is a red flag right? I don’t want to be her rebound or her safety net, or her emotional tampong. I was thinking maybe I should just ghost her and meet new gyal.
Update:I’m just gonna end this, just gonna tell her this was not what I had in mind when we met, good luck. I was never really into her anyways. And I’m already talking to another chick. I’ve used rubber but im gonna check myself before I’m meeting someone new just to be sure.
Thank you all for your answers. I will update this post soon.
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