So I've (M29) been dating a woman (F26) for about 2.5 months, we met in Paris but have had to do long distance. She's currently in Portugal and I'm in Paris. She's going to live in Portugal for the next 6 months at least, but says she wants to come to Paris after that.
She's from Mexico, and this is her first time living away from home at 26. We've messaged every day for 3 months and seen each other face to face twice, she came to spend 4 days with me in Paris a couple of weeks ago and it was amazing.
We're seeing each other again soon, but recently she told me she's "tempted" by a guy in Portugal. She's said I'm amazing and she wants to be with me, therefore nothing will happen. However she also said if I "allowed" her to hook up with this Portugese guy, she would like me even more.
She said she doesn't want an open relationship, but it would be "fragile masculinity" if I had an issue with her hooking up with someone else whilst we're in the "early stages of dating".
I really like her, but feels like a big red flag.
Thoughts?
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