UPDATE: Thank you all for your comments and advice. I really appreciate it. I also want to thank the people who reached out to me in DM and offered their support and sympathy. You guys are amazing.Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/14fzd4n/my20m_excrush_20f_is_trying_to_end_my/
I decided to follow the majority of you and block my ex-crush from my life. I also circled the wagon with our mutual friends and told them what she did. Most of them were supportive and understanding. Some of them were surprised and disappointed in her. A few of them tried to defend her and said that she was just confused or jealous. I don't care about her reasons. She crossed a line and she hurt me and my girlfriend.
I sent her a final message before blocking her on all social media. I told her that there is no such thing as me and her. I respect our time together as acquaintances when we attended the same K-12, nothing more and nothing less. I told her that I love my girlfriend and that she should leave us alone. I also told her that she needs to work on herself and stop being so manipulative and selfish.
After I sent her the final message, I took a screenshot of it and sent it to my girlfriend. I wanted to show her that I was serious about cutting off my ex-crush and that I had nothing to hide from her.
I also sent a message to my girlfriend and apologized for everything. I told her that I love her more than anything and that she is the only one for me. I told her that I blocked my ex-crush and cut off all contact with her. I told her that I understand if she needs time and space to process everything, but I hope that we can work things out.
She replied to me and said that she was glad that I blocked my ex-crush. She said that she was hurt by what she did, but she also trusts me and believes me. She said that she loves me too and that she wants to stay with me. She said that she needs some time to heal, but she is willing to talk to me and see me again.
I'm so relieved and happy that she didn't break up with me. I love her so much and I don't want to lose her over something stupid like this. I'm going to do everything I can to make her happy and secure in our relationship.
Thank you again for your support and advice. You guys are awesome.
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