Sorry I’m actually not OP, wasn’t my post. I was more asking out of curiosity about that advice in general, not because i thought you were wrong. Just because in situations like this, “don’t be insecure” seems to go against real reasons people should be (cheating, could leave for someone else, Etc). When people say “dont be insecure”, is it short for don’t be insecure unless theres a valid reason”? Hoping someone sees this and can flesh it out for me. I’ve just never understood it as a blanket advice and i want to.
What mother?
You go on and live your life without this person in it. It’s sucks. She won’t change. You can keep letting her hurt you or not.
Sorry I’m actually not OP, wasn’t my post. I was more asking out of curiosity about that advice in general, not because i thought you were wrong. Just because in situations like this, “don’t be insecure” seems to go against real reasons people should be (cheating, could leave for someone else, Etc). When people say “dont be insecure”, is it short for don’t be insecure unless theres a valid reason”? Hoping someone sees this and can flesh it out for me. I’ve just never understood it as a blanket advice and i want to.
Only terms u know are “so close!”