Oh, so he is another of the assholes in STEM gatekeeping the field for women and then saying “it's only men because MEN are smarter, not because we bully you in classes, don't hire you, make it difficult for you to work here (if we have to hire you for diversity stats), we don't promote you…”
I would never trust anyone who is okay with covering up someone’s cheating. It screams to me that he’s okay with it, and would cheat on you if he knows you’d never find out.
Also he’s threatening to leave you if you tell her bf, so he’s essentially choosing this friendship over you.
so does this situation count as cheating?? should I tell my bf?
Oh, so he is another of the assholes in STEM gatekeeping the field for women and then saying “it's only men because MEN are smarter, not because we bully you in classes, don't hire you, make it difficult for you to work here (if we have to hire you for diversity stats), we don't promote you…”
Tell her bf and leave yours.
I would never trust anyone who is okay with covering up someone’s cheating. It screams to me that he’s okay with it, and would cheat on you if he knows you’d never find out.
Also he’s threatening to leave you if you tell her bf, so he’s essentially choosing this friendship over you.