I recommend avoiding any kind of statement like “you feel X so no more sex”. It could make him defensive or make him want to downplay to avoid losing the relationship. It also identifies his feeling for him and we have a tendency to he wrong. Approach conversations like these with curiosity and compassion, with open questions.
Why are you exactly moving in with someone that doesn't respect you?
You realize he cheated on you, will keep cheating, and now you are offering him a sweet deal of moving in with you?
From 0 to 100, how dumb are you?
Get your money back before you end it.
Change your number
I recommend avoiding any kind of statement like “you feel X so no more sex”. It could make him defensive or make him want to downplay to avoid losing the relationship. It also identifies his feeling for him and we have a tendency to he wrong. Approach conversations like these with curiosity and compassion, with open questions.