My husband and I were over at my moms house today where my little sister stays. We were in the kitchen talking about how my sister pierced her ears at home without any ice etc and pushed the needle right through her ear. My sister goes “idk the pain felt kinda good!” and chuckled leaving the room. After she leaves my husband goes “I bet she’d love rough sex…” and laughs. I’m frankly appalled at this point.
Fast forward a few hours and my sister starts name calling my husband over text in a playful way. They start name calling each other back and forth over text. She called him a “little dick bitch” he says “cocksucker”. I leave the room to go to the bathroom and when I come back in I heard her say at least if I had a wife I’d make her finish. He laughs and says you’ll have to ask my wife about that. And continues to engage in this weird sexualized conversation.
The whole thing really rubbed me the wrong way and I guess I’m looking for advice or opinions on if what I felt was valid or not.
The name calling seemed to turn sexual fast and it felt off to me.
ETA: I brought this issue up in the car because I told him I wanted to leave and I was clearly upset. He got very angry with me and ignored me the whole way back. I’ve had issues with him in the past looking up very hot photos of my other sister who’s a model. But that is a whole other story. Said issues happened during our first year of marriage. Married 3 years this far.
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