I would suggest asking her what changed in 3 months that you went from being a clear no to you being so desirable that she was the one to ask you out.
I would be suspicious of her because if you losing weight and making more money is what put you in her #1 spot………..then she's superficial and would look for other men at the moment someone “more fit” and richer came by.
That being said, while she may not have asked the other guy out………….it's possible that she either knew that she would have been rejected or that she found out something about him that wasn't ideal.
She sounds like she's trying to monkey branch and find the greener pasture.
Yeah that scared me. Knowing my gf she's kind and naive, she'll meet the guy and one day she'll be comfortable meeting him without me and something bad might happen . I have a feeling the guy is playing a slow game to use her in order to gain her trust
I would suggest asking her what changed in 3 months that you went from being a clear no to you being so desirable that she was the one to ask you out.
I would be suspicious of her because if you losing weight and making more money is what put you in her #1 spot………..then she's superficial and would look for other men at the moment someone “more fit” and richer came by.
That being said, while she may not have asked the other guy out………….it's possible that she either knew that she would have been rejected or that she found out something about him that wasn't ideal.
She sounds like she's trying to monkey branch and find the greener pasture.
Honestly some things couples fantasize about should just stay as a fantasy. Trying to carry it out will just eventually fuck up the relationship
Yeah that scared me. Knowing my gf she's kind and naive, she'll meet the guy and one day she'll be comfortable meeting him without me and something bad might happen . I have a feeling the guy is playing a slow game to use her in order to gain her trust