In addition to going through my phone, sending himself my portion of a bill we share, and reading my messages…..I also discovered he’d taken photos and videos of my mothers feet with his phone during my “slumber”(he has a fetish). This was all seen on a search of a photo my partner had taken of the kids(his phone).
We have been married 6 years and have 3 children. Not sure how to move forward with this information or if it’s worth mentioning (otherwise perfect partnership). I’m so shocked by all of this and tbh I know it sounds made up. Should I be devising a plan to divorce, or is this not as serious as it feels.
TLDR: partner went through phone while I was in a coma, sent themselves money and took photos of my mom’s feet. Great partner and parent, (unusual situation) how to address this?
EDIT: To the genuine people concerned about both my health and relationship + offering sound advice, THANK YOU, I never expected this much attention. I’ve spoken to my husband about everything and am happy with the next steps agreed upon, some of these comments have truly helped hold me accountable. Sometimes you need an unbiased opinion and source to know when how you’re feeling is right vs wrong.
IF YOU THINK ITS FAKE DONT COMMENT! Why waste the energy? This is relationship advice not “I think someone else’s drama is so crazy that it’s made up advice”. The “fake story” comments are getting cornier and cornier as they come, and I’ll save you stress and block you so you don’t have to see it anymore. If I wanted to make up a story they actually have subreddits for that. Save your energy.
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