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Date: October 6, 2022
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My son is 4 he's not ever met his dad. I've reached out multiple times he chooses to stay out. He's not in a good place right now- substance abuse, homelessness, in and out of jail. My son started asking about his dad a while back I showed him pictures of his dad and told him about him. He then asked how come he hasn't met his dad. I told him that sometimes grown ups struggle with things like kids do and that right now he wasn't in a good place and needed to get better and that one day when his dad was ready they could maybe meet. I make it a point to make it as positive as possible I don't want him to think he did something wrong or internalize it in some other negative way towards himself.
Ya just don’t respond often
You can pick up a random hair from anywhere you go. I’ve picked long blonde hairs off my sleeve a couple times in the past. I also found a long hair in a bag of cat food I had just opened once. And if you use shared laundry facilities you are almost guaranteed to end up with a stray stranger hair now and then.
What did she say when you suggested something over the phone?
You do not call it cheating but emotional cheating can be just as bad and has ended many relationships. If you do not think it cheating than why not tell your SO?
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This isn’t the behaviour of a respectful man. He’s disgusting.
Do not see him again.
Coworkers aren't friends.
She's bringing it up. It's most likely extremely awkward when she does. People generally know not to ask if someone has kids. Someone might say “Yeah, I have to leave a little early today, my daughter has practice.” Then your wife straight up goes “Yeah, I wish I had children but my wife is actually trans so.. ya know…”. To which a normal person would move on as quickly as possible from that topic.
In no fucking way does mentioning your spouse's genitals come up naturally in work convetsation. Your wife wants people to know her politics or something. It's very odd.
Good luck.
She has your future all figured out, doesn’t she. Don’t do a thing for her or the baby until you know if it’s yours.
Don’t move in with her if it’s your child. It’ll be an awful experience. Learn to coparent living on your own.
So for now, there’s not much to do until you find out if it’s yours. Good luck and please update. I’m sorry you had to learn about women like her the naked way.
You showed up at his house. She should’ve maced you. Stop contacting him. He doesn’t want you.
Probably find a new love of your life, because you squandered the last one away.
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i have adhd, im time blind. i honestly can't guess how long anything is taking me or will take me. ill be done in twenty minutes can mean half a day, im almost there.. maybe, or maybe an hour away. the dishes take several hours, im positive.
i honestly don't mean to and im mostly doing it to myself.
getting ready for work? yea.. i gotta sit on my bed in my towel for a few minutes checking my planner, oh no.. got a notification.. just need to finish doing this. forget that i need to pee until it hurts. my cat came to say hello. well i missed the bus, better catch an uber. ew surge pricing.. ill just scroll reddit while i wait a few minutes. shit.. i forgot to feed the cat, that's why he's all over me.. ofc, why would i assume he just wanted to say hello. ok uber is on the way.. lost my shoes, i kicked them off when i got home and now they could literally be anywhere
my bf is very understanding. if its urgent, he just lies about when i need to be somewhere
Hey question, how is your work history? Do you have any kind of past history with unemployment?
Here’s what my girlfriend and I did: I owned the house that she moved into with me. She pays half.. let’s say it’s $500 on a $1000 mortgage. $250 of her $500 goes into the mortgage for escrow and interest. The other $250 goes into a savings account. If we break up, the savings account goes back to her. If we get married, the money goes towards the house.
He already told you he wants to end the relationship. You should cut your losses and end it. Love yourself first hun then someone who really deserve you will come along.
I believe if he wants kids and you don't know if you ever will he needs to know this, because it could be your relationship should end but he should be able to decide how much he wants them and what he wants more.
Well doesn't me being bi make it more plausible that I'd see it that way? Lol I always thought straight people would be the ones getting more confused and insecure over their partner being bi than someone like me.
I don’t think she was cheating. She hated her location with me early on because she works late hours as a bartender and wanted someone to be able to check up on her. We also used each others phones occasionally.
We actually had a good relationship before we got married. I’m shocked she felt this way she always seemed so supportive.
This was a bunch of paragraphs that were full of excuses. Start by not trying to justify it. That’s where you start. Making amends is all about changing your behavior.
BREAK UP, there are ways to support this child without being with her!!
Lol I wonder what was her response. lol you block her and don’t ever contact her again you just live! your best life
As someone who got pregnant young and was abandoned by my daughter's father, my parents' full support is the reason for my success. Have a talk with your son and make sure he understands that letting you help him doesn't mean he's failed. There is no glory in living close to the bone, which is what he's setting himself and his child up for if he misses this opportunity. Good luck to you all, he sounds like a good guy.
I dunno, maybe… the whole thing just reeks of clueless selfishness, but maybe it's just how I read it. 🙂
I know, it’s just that she’s my best friend and I know her well, she’s a very sensitive person with not a very stable mental health
The thing is, if youre too naive to see the problem youre also too naive to post it to r/Relationship_Advice
This is just so over the top – OP clearly knows what his wife is doing is so far beyond the pale this almost seems like a joke, and then is acting like he doesnt know what to do? Any person with two brain cells to rub together would have already been talking to a lawyer, whos first advice would be “dont go airing this dirty laundry out on random internet forums, it can only hurt your chances in court”
OP is either a liar or really, REALLY dumb
You have to make the call on if it’s right for you or not. But what I will say is knowing them do you think they would be open to the convo or do you think there is a possibility that you come out feeling worse after by what they say?
If there is a chance you walk away feeling worse then make sure you weigh that into your decision on having this convo.
You may get 2 dif reactions as well, I am assuming maybe wrongfully so that being divorced this would be 2 separate conversations.
How long have you been debating this?
So finding those messages didnt surprise Jack or Elena, they just were like “oh I guess we were flirting”? This whole thing just feels like a writing exercise, either way leave the past in the past. Are you expecting to divorce your wife and Elena come running back into your arms because “it was all a mistake!” Her husband died, she doesnt need a college bf weaseling his way back into her life. At some point bro your wife has become the love of your life when youve spent more time with her and had kids then a flind you had in college.
Sorry you are going through this. At least you had the good sense to try to fix this and when she wouldn't meet you halfway, you ripped the band aid off, you cant fix someone who is broken, well done for being emotionally mature enough to make naked decision. Good luck
Seriously you didn’t feel soreness? How can you blame someone about rape over a false memory you are inventing otherwise. Be very careful how you state this to people, the law will not protect you if caught lying.
That's a lot of pressure for a young relationship.
But you've got a specific time line, age you should be dating people who have similar goals.
Talk to your doctor first and find out how this could've happened. Then talk to your husband, with facts backed up by the doctor
Yup. Break up with BF or stop talking to the other dude
She is BPD and will never improve until she is properly medicated. Some people do improve without medication but she demonstrates that her unhappiness is all your fault. No amount of explanation or passivity is going to make her happy. You are not being unfair to her. But you are being unfair to yourself. It's time to move on.
Don't.
In biogenic terms, you're about as “related” to this person as you are any complete stranger you meet on the street in your parents home town.
You're way over thinking this.
You should’ve been there with her in the first place so you’re patting yourself on the back that you didn’t shit really is soda hollow to me. I think your girlfriend would’ve been hurt by the whole thing. So next time now you know you can go out with girls anytime you want as long as you don’t sleep with them. It’s not a great discovery you’re such a good boyfriend.
Or becoming violent unfortunately 🙁 Sad to see such an old school negative thought process in youth. We, like have the internet now and should know better lol
I have told her that I would like her to be more sweet and say nice things to me so I guess my love language is words of affirmation. And I think she's the opposite, besides physical touch she really likes gifts and also gives them
So your answer is you don’t like reality?
It’s cycle of life. Nothing shocking.
Explain where you disagree with facts. Not your feelings.
They are entitled to say anything they want.
Weird you added some racial component.
If they're in the US that's very much not a common thing for men to do.
I don't feel like I can ever talk to him openly and honestly
I'm always the one to compromise
I'm still not at all happy with our relationship and I'm starting to even feel some resentment
I actually hate staying at his place
Girl, leave.
He chose you.
Rise and shine!
He sees something in you others don't.
How about asking him what it is. And then try to live! up to his affection.
Also: people might have suggested this already… how about therapy?
Thinking the way you do about oneself is bound to make you long term very unhappy.
And even sick. You are a perceptive person. You saw your man quite clearly.
I am sure there are many other positive chracter points which you do not count into the ranks of your positive points.
With a little help you may learn to feel better inside yourself.
At least “Nah …” would have been funny and silly
Without proper communication and agreement this is a recipe for disaster.
This sub is for people seeking relationship advice, not judgment or validation.
be honest
“I'm planning your party as long as you do the work I assign you that you're not comfortable doing” isn't a recipe for success. Let it go, have fun, and don't try to measure the “success” of the party.
Get out now, get way from your verbally abusive asshole of a boyfriend. He's not going to change, he's just going to keep ripping you down. Get out now.
Why should he respect you if you don’t respect yourself? Why are you in this relationship?
You are not a bad partner for not giving him money. Your parents worked naked and are sharing their wealth for your education so you don't have to work as hot as they did, and you can have an even better life. He chose to buy an expensive laptop that he couldn't afford and is being a bad partner by pressuring you to give him money.